Tweeted this question out the other day: Some “got it,” others didn’t. So let’s go over this… as it’s incredibly common in relationships on BOTH SIDES. And tends to lead to serious resentment and misunderstandings. Within almost every relationship, there is at least one party that overtly wants more connection with the other. Usually, this […]
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One of the things that defines the manosphere, certainly compared to the mainstream, is its admirable focus on personal growth. If you’re not where you want to be, you need to work towards it. If you’re weak, if you’re poor, if you suck with women — and if you have filthy or self-destructive habits that
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Spicy topic today. But wanted to take on something the manosphere has long harped on: that older women are just “not worth the trouble” to be in a relationship with. (Note: I’m not talking about relative age, but absolute — aka 30+) Their rationale has a couple of angles. But the fundamental argument is that
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Relatively short email for you today. But wanted to touch upon a topic the great Nash brought up the other day, as I haven’t talked about it very much on here. Poaching. Nash lays the practical response out well. So I’m not going to elaborate too much more on that. What I want to explain is why
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Saw a reddit post a twitter few days back that was very disheartening for some people: My response to this was simple: However, some people wanted a further elaboration. So I will do my best to be concise, and get to the heart of the issue here. This guy is immature and does not want
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Something very commonly thrown about, or at least insinuated, in the manosphere is this idea that “women leave men who fail.” Women are hypergamous, after all, and want “winners.” Guys who lose don’t get the girl. Fair enough. I think we can all acknowledge that women like winners. But as usual, many guys don’t think
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A few years back guys doing cold approaches began to have a bit of a curveball. You’d approach a girl, strike up a conversation with her. Things would be going well. Naturally, you ask for her number. But then she demurs… “uhh I don’t give out my number, do you have instagram instead?” When I
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A reader writes in: I am a regular reader of your newsletter from 2+ years. Today i got a doubt while seeing a tweet on timeline: In earlier time women used to give birth, breastfeed and take care of child. Men used to breadwinner of family. So men has some value associated to them. But
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One of the things that’s quite common in manosphere is this idea that dating and relationship issues are more or less the same. Why do relationships fail or get stagnant? Because the guy “isn’t desirable anymore.” He’s not alpha. It is taken for granted that these single guys won’t ever mess this up — in spite
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So as many of you guys know, one of my most distinct and powerful concepts I’ve pushed is the idea of “friend-zoning” women. For those who don’t know, this is basically making a woman — and yes, often an attractive woman — your friend rather than pursuing her romantically. The goal being to “plant seeds”
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