I see it all the time with clients. A man and his woman have some pretty exciting sex when they first get together. Then they get committed and serious. It declines maybe a bit. Then they move in together. It goes down a bit more. Then they get married… and it drops a bit more […]
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A somewhat spicy email for you today. And one lacking in some of my usual nuance. But a common situation arose with a client the other day… and figured it was time to give my two cents on it. Is it possible to date across the political aisle? The answer, as always, is… it depends. Do
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Something I was asked to comment on awhile back, but I’ve mostly avoided has been the topic of women and their “work husbands.” The reason for this is fairly simple. I find the term “work husband” stupid and it annoys me. Such a classic phrase to emerge circa 2022. Nevertheless, it’s real and we must address it. So
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Got into a little controversy (as usual) on the timeline the other day: But before we get into the meat… It should be noted I understand entirely the intent of this tweet and where Evie is coming from. I get why some women would take issue with the idea of a man going to a
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Read a harrowing story on Twitter the other day: It’s a long thread… you can go through the details yourself. But to TL;DR… this woman was dating a man and became pregnant with his child. Because she (African) was from a different background than him (Pakistani), however, his culture wouldn’t accept her. And so, while
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Unexpectedly, I stirred up the hornet’s nest the other day with this tweet: But let me make a few general comments before we dive into it… First, remember anything that triggers people usually has legs. If you say something offensive that is dumb it doesn’t really piss people off. It’s boring, and often not worth
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A month or so back, I had a great email exchange with a woman who used to have quite a big account in our corner of Twitter. Indeed, she was so early to the “manosphere” you might call her one of our original “e-girls.” She had a rough and somewhat “degen” past (nothing extreme, essentially
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Going to keep this email short and straight to the point. A lot of guys in the manosphere talk a big game. But the fact remains… The biggest impediment to growth has been, and always will be, stubbornness and arrogance. Unfortunately, these are common traits among men. Most guys would prefer to struggle and stagnate rather
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Very thought-provoking tweet by YoyloPUA the other day: A lot of guys will disagree with it. Indeed, I am not fully in agreement myself — technically speaking. Attraction — by my definition, desire and comfort — matters. And you need to learn it. But, you need to learn it so that you can do exactly what Yoylo
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Guys tend to disagree with each other about the quality of women for a very simple reason: the women they experience are completely different. But the question isn’t that this happens, but why it happens. Generally it’s a combination of factors. No question, the environment where you are meeting women matters. You are going to get a
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