Something I was asked to comment on awhile back, but I’ve mostly avoided has been the topic of women and their “work husbands.” The reason for this is fairly simple. I find the term “work husband” stupid and it annoys me. Such a classic phrase to emerge circa 2022. Nevertheless, it’s real and we must address it. So […]
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Read a harrowing story on Twitter the other day: It’s a long thread… you can go through the details yourself. But to TL;DR… this woman was dating a man and became pregnant with his child. Because she (African) was from a different background than him (Pakistani), however, his culture wouldn’t accept her. And so, while
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Unexpectedly, I stirred up the hornet’s nest the other day with this tweet: But let me make a few general comments before we dive into it… First, remember anything that triggers people usually has legs. If you say something offensive that is dumb it doesn’t really piss people off. It’s boring, and often not worth
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Guys tend to disagree with each other about the quality of women for a very simple reason: the women they experience are completely different. But the question isn’t that this happens, but why it happens. Generally it’s a combination of factors. No question, the environment where you are meeting women matters. You are going to get a
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Spicy topic today. But wanted to take on something the manosphere has long harped on: that older women are just “not worth the trouble” to be in a relationship with. (Note: I’m not talking about relative age, but absolute — aka 30+) Their rationale has a couple of angles. But the fundamental argument is that
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Relatively short email for you today. But wanted to touch upon a topic the great Nash brought up the other day, as I haven’t talked about it very much on here. Poaching. Nash lays the practical response out well. So I’m not going to elaborate too much more on that. What I want to explain is why
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A few years back guys doing cold approaches began to have a bit of a curveball. You’d approach a girl, strike up a conversation with her. Things would be going well. Naturally, you ask for her number. But then she demurs… “uhh I don’t give out my number, do you have instagram instead?” When I
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A reader writes in: I am a regular reader of your newsletter from 2+ years. Today i got a doubt while seeing a tweet on timeline: In earlier time women used to give birth, breastfeed and take care of child. Men used to breadwinner of family. So men has some value associated to them. But
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One of the things that’s quite common in manosphere is this idea that dating and relationship issues are more or less the same. Why do relationships fail or get stagnant? Because the guy “isn’t desirable anymore.” He’s not alpha. It is taken for granted that these single guys won’t ever mess this up — in spite
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