AS YOU ARE: NICK SPARKS BOOK REVIEW I’ve had a lot of mentors in the dating world. But none changed my life quite so much as Nick Sparks. I trained under him in person and received perspective from him in an alumni group for years afterwords. Though he is by no means the only source […]
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WHAT IS FRAME? I talk a lot about Frame. Indeed, I even wrote an article on it here. But I’ve realized as I’ve gotten more and more questions about Frame that many only have a vague idea of what it is, let how to set it. So in the next series of articles I’m going
Develop Awareness. But Know It’s Only The Beginning. You can ask me anything you want to know about dating. You can read my posts, you can comment, you can tell me how it opened your mind up. You can message me. You can tell me your fears, problems, and aspirations. I can listen. You can
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THE FASTEST WAY TO GET RID OF APPROACH ANXIETY I once heard the story of some “legendary pick up artist” who completely obliterated approach anxiety. I forget his name, but according to the story he didn’t shower or shave, let his hair grow out long, and wore only what was (at least in my memory)
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HOW DO YOU MAKE AN IMPACT? FIND YOUR NICHE, IN DATING AND IN LIFE. I was sitting on my cramped little bed at Penn with her, talking about life. I was dreaming about things – big things I could accomplish. After all, I had great ideas. I was capable of so much. But when she
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HOW TO TALK TO WOMEN: DJ KHALED DATING ADVICE Why do some guys get girls and others don’t? One of the biggest reasons is that unlike most guys, they know how to talk to women. Yet if you were to ask them how to talk to women, you’d probably get almost as many different answers
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WHY GUYS ARE CREEPY (AND HOW TO STOP BEING IT) No one likes being insulted. But if there is one word that strikes fear into the heart of men everywhere, it’s not “asshole,” it’s not “dick,” it’s not “disgusting,” – it’s not even “loser.” It’s creep. Being called a creep – or “creepy” – is
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THE RIGHT DATING FRAME People often ask me what they need to say to attract a girl. And like a good dating coach, I give them some specific tips and help them to troubleshoot their situations. But the truth is I’m lying. Yes, there are best practices – yes, some things that stack the deck against
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SHOULD I COMMIT? If you walk down the street, particularly in a big city, one thing stands out to you immediately. Sex. It’s on billboards, with hot girls in lingerie posing seductively. It’s on the sidewalk, with long legs, make-up, and a smile. And when you get home, it’s online with the click of a
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DO LOOKS MATTER? THE UNCOMFORTABLE TRUTH If there’s one thing people hate talking about, it’s looks. And I get why. Looks are superficial. Physical attractiveness is subjective. And as a society we already assign far too much value to how people appear, and not enough to who they are. Why talk about it more? Why ask
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