THE THREE PILLARS OF ATTRACTION I’ve been often asked, “Pat, if there is ONE thing you need to do to succeed in dating, what is it?” Generally, my go to response is this article. There is no question attraction lives and dies on the strength of a man’s frame. It is the safest and most […]
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THE REAL REASON WOMEN LOVE RICH GUYS There are many things in the dating world under dispute. One of them is not. Women love rich guys. Like status, money is an aphrodisiac to women. Ugly, out of shape men “punch above their weight” (literally) with pretty women so long as they have money. And society’s
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THE 2 TYPES OF MEN AND WOMEN (AND THE GAMMA MALE AND FEMALE) In the “manosphere,” two main types of men are bandied about frequently. These archetypes are simplistic, but often useful: Alphas and Betas. Many of you may be familiar with them, but for those who aren’t, the concept behind these archetypes is simple.
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WHY DO WOMEN LOVE STATUS? There is one iron-clad law of the dating game: Women love status. Consciously or not, they gravitate towards men who have popularity, riches, and fame… and if in a relationship, desire that their men achieve higher status himself. As such, many men make it their be-all-end-all goal to acquire as
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THE 5 RULES OF COMPLIMENTING A GIRL Conventional dating advice is convoluted. One “expert” might say this, another that… sometimes their advice even directly contradicts each other. You’ve probably heard some of it before: “Don’t compliment a girl or she’ll ditch you!” And it’s inverse… “If you want to get a girl to like you,
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LEARN TO SAY NO AND DO WHAT YOU WANT It was a warm, fall Sunday afternoon – and we had arrived. Mike’s Seafood. The *best* seafood on the Jersey Shore. Kate was eager for some crab legs. Me, not so much. Normally, I’d be right there with her – but the tedious labor of extracting
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WHEN BUILDING SEXUAL TENSION BECOMES A MISTAKE I’ve recently received some flak for a position I’ve taken that “it can be better to wait to have sex (or even kiss) a woman on a first date.” Here’s why: A friend of mine had a GREAT date with a woman, filled with flirting, chemistry, etc. But he didn’t kiss her
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WHICH WAY TO APPROACH A GIRL IS BEST? The Pick Up world has long been divided between two ways to approach a girl: Direct and Indirect. And it’s about time we addressed them. So here’s the low down: Direct approaches are when you go up to a girl and express interest in her directly (duh).
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WHY YOU NEED AMBITION There is one thing all men that have “top tier” women have in common. It’s not looks. It’s not wealth. It’s not even talent. You guessed it… It’s ambition. Women are by their fundamental nature drawn to men who seek to rise above other men. This is an uncomfortable truth that
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HOW TO TELL IF YOU HAD A GOOD DATE A message the other day from one of my clients caught my attention: “As you know all my dates have been one and dones. I wouldn’t recognize when to attempt to pursue anything beyond a 1st date if it hit me in the face. What indicators
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