A reader writes in: Hey Pat – appreciate your newsletter one of the best out there. Not sure if any others have messaged you if it’s common enough for a post or tweet, but love to get your take/ advice for someone in mixed political marriage? Married in 2008 before things got crazy, my wife […]
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A reader writes in: I’ve got a question for your next dating and relationship Q&A. Hopefully this screed isn’t too lengthy for the show: Preface: I’m a recent Catholic convert. Aside from the massive spiritual benefits this has provided me in these troubled times, my faith has also given me a lot of opportunities to
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Super controversial thread hit the timeline the other day: Understandably a lot of guys were pissed I drew attention to it. And likely those same guys are annoyed I am doing so to an even greater degree now. So let me first get a few things out of the way: 1) As I have said
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A tragic yet perennial story hit the timeline the other day: While it is of course obvious to outsiders this relationship is over — the girl will be sleeping with the guy if she hasn’t already — I have some understanding of this man’s stupefaction. Because 12 years ago, when I was a young padawan, I found
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Put out a tweet the other day that created some interesting conversations: #1 #2 Obviously a lot of guys have a hard time with this, because the red pill is predominantly constructed around men who (at least at one point) struggled to attract women. You were “undesirable,” and so you had to learn how to
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A lot of guys are insecure about how good they are in bed. And given the culture we’re in, it’s understandable. The media tells men their value with women is based on their sexual prowess, and porn reinforces the message. So when guys find themselves in an intimate situation, the pressure on them to perform
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Short list of behavioral traits guys say they want with women: allows man his freedom (no nagging or demands) submissive; surrenders emotionally and sexually Lives basically to make his life easier (cooks, cleans, etc) All sounds pretty good, right? You get an attractive girl who does all of this, and you’ve hit the jackpot. Which
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It seems these things go through cycles. 15-20 years ago, game was *the* way to meet women. Didn’t matter how hot or in what scene a girl was — you could get her if you understood attraction. Guys who mastered cold approach were the elite with women. Then it shifted to looks. Girls really didn’t
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As most of you know, I am a big proponent of social circle game. There are a lot of reasons for this. You end up meeting more “pre-vetted” women, as most of the girls that enter your universe are friends of friends. This improves quality; there is a greater likelihood of shared values. But even
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