Meet different people, you’ll realize they all like different things.Some are big on sports, others music, a handful ideas. We all only have a few interests in common. Food. Sleep. Physical comfort. (Maybe) Sex. And stories. Without exception, EVERYBODY is interested in stories. Stories are simply written into our DNA. Most of us in the […]
THE ULTIMATE IMPERATIVE If you’ve been around our corner of the internet, you’ve probably heard the term “feminine imperative” — coined by the highly influential and insightful Rollo Tomassi — thrown around. For the uninitiated, the feminine imperative is essentially the execution of a woman’s sexual strategy: to sleep with a man who is dominant
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As I’ve been investigating personality, the final pillar of attraction, I’ve come to realize a couple interesting things: One, your personality plays a pretty big role in who you attract (go figure) But two, it plays much LESS of a role the more psychologically developed you are. Interesting, no? When you’re personality isn’t developed, you
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The other day I read a long, personal email from Alex Allman, a thought leader when it comes to relationships (and a man I deeply respect). It was revealing on the nature of attraction and took on many topics, among them Pick Up. I won’t go into the full email as I actually found most
The other day I heard a story about a mutual friend — one that might ring true for many of you. It involves a girl — just on the cusp of 30, attractive, in shape, all around cool and fun. She’s been looking for a boyfriend for a while now — easily a year or
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Last weekend I went out for my soon-to-be-married friend’s bachelor party. Like most bachelor parties, the plan was drinks, dinner, and then a little “after hours” fun at a strip club. Our goal was to give him a little public humiliation — to have some girls abuse him in front of the crowd. And, of
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You ever go online to search for something specific and then end up reading or watching something completely different? Rhetorical question, I know 😉 Well, today I found myself in that trap, unintentionally watching clips of World War One trench warfare. Most of the scenes were the usual: a bunch of young men waiting to
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TACTICS, STRATEGY, AND WOMEN In 218 BC, Hannibal of Carthage and his army crossed the Alps into Italy. The move brought with it considerable risk. The alps were dangerous territory — the weather was harsh, the passes narrow, and Hannibal’s army (which included elephants) suffered nearly half its force trying to pass through. But militarily,
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HOW TO WORK YOUR SOCIAL MUSCLES The other week I attended a big party / gala. It was what you might expect: successful people dressed to the 9s, in an art gallery, drinking sponsored alcohol in support of a charity. While perhaps not exactly my scene, I had fun. The people were cool and the
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HOW TO HANDLE A FIRST DATE If you’re like most people, you’re probably a little burned out of dating. You’ve spent a lot of time and money on “relationships” that never went anywhere… or even if they did, the investment wasn’t worth it. And you’re tired of it. You want to know how to navigate
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