I was talking to a (potential) client recently about an interesting thing: trust and relationships. (If you want to consider working with me, go here: www.patstedman.com/application) Truth be told, it’s not something I’ve gone over too much with clients to date. Most guys who work with me want to learn game, want to get their minds […]
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The other day there were a couple of great comments by Avaritia (@ethenes) and Randy Treibel on something that’s been a real fascination of mine recently: Cluster B (personality disorder) women… and the men who date them. A few highlights here: “if you ever want a cluster B to leave you alone, kill them with kindness.
I work with a wide range of clients from all around the world. It’s made me realize the ways men are both the same, in how women orient them — and different — in personalities, values, backgrounds. Ergo, something I have to be constantly aware of is not to project my own beliefs onto others.
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A couple of you have been asking me what I think about the #MeToo movement and the sexual harassment allegations flying around. I know it’s a hot topic, and I probably should have said more on it earlier — content 101 is discuss what’s relevant. Yet for the most part, I’ve avoided giving comment. The
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As many of you might remember, I’ve got a thing for DJ Khaled. The dude absolutely fascinates me. Got to be one of the dumbest celebrities yet one of the most authentic and in-tune with himself. Anyway, another riff on the guy. One of his popular (albeit not sensational) songs is “No New Friends.” Basically, the
About a year ago I wrote a two-part article on the difference between Dominance and Seduction. (Read: Part 1 & Part 2) It’s a topic that fascinates me to this day. The main question that still remains for me is how it plays into game. Let me take you down my line of inquiry… I consider both Dominance
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“A woman can tell if you’re assessing her or leering” Some guy, I believe @huntfored, said something along those lines the other day. (Great account to follow if you haven’t already – he’s basically the wise yet jaded, reformed hedonist. Dark, incredible insights into female nature.) It’s an important distinction. Girls LOVE being “assessed” —
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So in my other job, I recently had a big sales opportunity. I was selling a high-quality product at a low price point, to a place that had the space to sell TONS of the product. It would have been a huge coup for me to make this sale… and I was confident about it
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Everyone who’s at least somewhat awake to gender dynamics understands, when it comes to preselection, women desire men who are high status and good-looking. Bad looks, you need status. Low status, you need looks. (though note: status is relative to the environment, so don’t think you need to be an international celebrity to have high
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Recently one of my clients and I have been working on getting this girl (who likes him, and has said as much) to hang out. In theory, this should be easy. As I said she’s already expressed interest, and the last date they went on they ended up making out in a back alley. But
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