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Viking Golddiggers

Yesterday we talked about Poor King Harald from the series Vikings. And today we’re going to talk about him again.Because Poor King Harald (such a catchy phrase) is the gift that keeps on giving when it comes to women. Exhibit B: Harald, after “moving on” from his disloyal love interest, kidnaps another girl: the concubine-protectress […]

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Pussy King

I just finished “Vikings” series. (Or at least, what’s out so far) ***I won’t try to give too many spoilers… but if you’re not yet through season 4, you might want to close the email now.*** There’s a character in the show called Harald. When you first meet Harald, he’s an ambitious Earl, on his

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The Seduction Paradox

Yesterday we spoke a bit on the “feminine” nature of seduction… and how many recovering “betas” find seduction a more comfortable road out celibacy than dominance. It raised the question of whether seduction was really a sustainable approach for a guy. After all: If seduction is feminine energy, and feminized guys are drawn to it,

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Seductive Betas

Yesterday we talked about the negative effects of an excessively close relationship with one’s mother into adulthood. We saw how it impacted relationships. But what about dating? It’s an interesting question. Many of these guys develop a fear of women — understandably, because they lacked masculine influence and self-responsibility (and the confidence that comes with

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Vanity Unfair

I recently finished off Vanity Fair — an eloquent, satirical novel of upper-class Britain at the close of the Napoleonic Wars and the years following. (Note: This is different from the ironically-named magazine of today which elevates said snobby upper class) One of the greatest things about this work — published in 1848 — is the no-holds-barred

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The 2 Kinds of Seducers

One of my favorite books (not sure if I’ve mentioned it before) is The Unbearable Lightness of Being, by Milan Kundera. Milan is a Czech writer, and as would be befitting, his book takes place (mostly) in Prague, on the eve of the Soviet invasion in ’68. The book is great on multiple levels.Gives you

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Ethical Seduction – What Is It?

Yesterday on twatter I put out a quote on “Ethical Seduction” ***Ethical seduction: Understanding someone’s weak spots… and causing them to love you for helping them overcome them.*** Some people wondered whether this was no different than just being kind. Spoiler alert: It is. Not to diminish such gestures, but anyone can be kind. It doesn’t

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Deep Game

Personality work is polarizing in the dating community. Some people swear by it. Some write it off entirely. A major reason for this divide comes down to fear. For instance: Many people think personality is the be-all-end-all in romance because they are worried about coming across as sexist, and think personality conveniently writes-off gender. “People

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The Quantity Mindset of Dating

The other day I tweeted a thread about The Red Pill (TRP) applying primarily to damaged women, and won’t work for emotionally healthy girls… though indicated within it that *most* women are indeed damaged, and that the number of these is growing. Subsequently, a follower made an observation: “This point seems undermined by your admission

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