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A Musician’s Worst Nightmare

I was tagged in an interesting story the other day. Basically, a very talented clarinetist got into his dream school, but his girlfriend — who didn’t want him to go away from her — pretended to be the school and sent him a “rejection” email. Meanwhile, she pretended to be him and sent a rejection to

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The Ruin Of Men

We mentioned briefly yesterday why you can’t trust insecure girls. But we didn’t talk about why guys date them anyway. It all comes back to one of my favorite topics: Girl Game. Men are naturally stronger than women, and have a different role to play in the species. Every man deep down feels the desire to protect.

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The Bad Kind of Authenticity

Yesterday we talked about authenticity, and how many are just play-acting the trait. But even genuine authenticity isn’t the be-all-end all in attraction. Indeed… if it’s not packaged correctly, it can even be a liability. The reason? Authentic people act boring. Now, are they ACTUALLY boring? I don’t know. A lot of people seem boring,

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The Alcohol Controversy

It’s no shock to people that I enjoy my drink. Alcohol is fun, though truth be told its the culture around it I love. (Why 95%+ of what I drink is wine, unless I am in Poland or Mexico, when it’s vodka or tequila shots respectively) And so, I’ve had my share of “hangovers” and

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Russell Brand Game

I think I mentioned the other day about artists and adventurers. I consider them both to be two sides of the same coin. One an internal expression, the other external. But same energy. Same idea, in fact, of expression. Which is the key here for us today. If you’ve ever wondered why high-powered, successful men get

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Mommy Girlfriend

We’ve talked about hard women the last few days, this will be our last exploration for the time being. I want to talk about a strange but growing phenomenon in the west… Perhaps you’ve heard of them. They certainly got some press. Cougar cruises. Basically, young guys getting comped vacations with old women, to keep

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The Virtues of Hard Women

We spoke yesterday about hard men and soft women. But what about hard women? Do they have a place, romantically? The answer: It depends. (a frustrating answer, I know) We’ll talk about one growing niche for such women tomorrow, but historically they’ve actually been quite important… at least in militaristic societies. These societies cultivate hardness.

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