Premising this for my boys. No, I am not becoming Matthew Hussey and working with women (though I respect the game). I ain’t switching no teams. But, for the few women on here who might be (creepily) lurking, and for the general knowledge of my gentlemen, I wanted to give some advice. A few pearls […]
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Yesterday I talked about the quality vs quantity dilemma with women. But a reader noticed a potential discrepancy. To paraphrase: “Pat, does this mean you no longer believe in harems?”An excellent question — since I wrote an article explaining how to get them — which I will answer presently. First though, I want to zoom out. Although
Are Harems “Low Consciousness?” Read More »
Yesterday’s email was long, so I cut it short. But there was more business to attend to… and I want to return to a theme I have thought much about recently. Quality vs Quantity. I believe this is the fundamental difference amongst those in the dating community. There are some that believe the way to
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I got into a cordial disagreement with Nash (@daysofgame) on Twitter the other day. Now, I don’t want anything here misconstrued. Nash is very smart, and moreover a good guy. I like him a lot. And, I don’t want to put him on blast. But I think it worthwhile for you readers to understand our
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Although I’m very tuned into the modern dating scene, with its trials and tribulations, I have a bit of a confession to make. It’s a silly thing, really. But I’m so focused on the “deep” end of things with most of my clients, I have forgotten of late to mention one of the most important
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I can tell you pretty directly what kind of people absolutely suck at having healthy relationships. It shouldn’t be surprising.In fact, it’s so boring that I feel stupid typing it. But, it bears mentioning… since 99% of the shit I see the monkeys throwing around the interwebs directly contradicts it. Everyone is so focused on
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It’s become apparent over the years that my style is quite different from most of the typical dating coaches. Despite the evolution of “the industry” away from negs, canned PUA routines, etc… people are still grounding themselves in the numbers game. More focus on strategy (physique, lifestyle, masculinity) vs tactics (peacocking, status-faking, game), but still
Why I Don’t Endorse “Cold” Approaches Read More »
About two years ago I wrote an article on DJ Khaled’s dating advice. It was a silly article. I made fun of DJ Khaled’s brains, while respecting his supreme confidence. (and considered what you really need to get women) But I’m realizing now that I was wrong. Not about the importance of shameless confidence… but about Khaled. It
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A common adage in the dating scene is “opposites attract, but they don’t stay together” There’s a lot of truth to this expression. “Opposite” personalities are generally incompatible… they interact with the world in different ways. So while relationships are possible, they aren’t natural. And yet, such people often get together. What gives? Nothing too crazy,
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Yesterday we talked about when and how your girl will “jump ship.” Today we’ll talk about how to make sure that essentially will never happen. Let me tell you a story about a friend of mine. He’s a decent looking guy, in shape, has great game… and at the time had a successful, but still
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