I’ve been thinking about attraction for the last decade. And I’ve consumed more or less all the opinions about “what women want” that exist out there. Right now, at least in the circles I’ve been frequenting, the main obsession seems to be with leadership. Women want men who are leaders. Men who lead the family. […]
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Last email we talked about lust, and the unattractiveness of it. But the truth is… well… I wasn’t being entirely truthful. Plenty of people successfully hook up when their only motivating factor is lust. Indeed, being a sick, lust-filled pervert can mean quite a bit of sex. But there’s a catch. Something that might not
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“The most erotic thing for a woman is to be desired. The most repulsive thing for a woman is to be lusted after. Most guys will never understand the difference.” I tweeted this out the other day, and many guys asked for clarification, so as promised here we go… The first thing to understand about
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I’m the youngest of three, but significantly so. So when I was a toddler, my sisters were in high school. I was the cute bane of their existence. A curious child, I’d always be places I wasn’t supposed to be in. And would frequently sneak into their room and mess things up. Usually, they’d tell
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I hate singling out any type for criticism, as there are always exceptions, and it can lead people to unjustly reject compatible people based on type. But there’s one thing I’ve noticed that is so universal it’s tough to ignore. So common. So predictable. I just need to say it. Beware of ESFJs. Now, being
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One of the things I love doing is prodding the singles out there about their dating life. Partly, out of entertainment. (Most people are so clueless, and lack so much self-awareness, it boggles the mind) But also for content fodder. I mine these people like Cerro Rico in Potosi, gleaning every last bit of silver
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The following tale is a difficult one to tell. It delves into some very dark parts of the female psyche, particularly the psyche of a ubiquitous female type: the ISFJ. But tis very instructive, so let’s dive in. First, a little background. ISFJs are the behind-the-scenes “caretaker” women. They keep a nice, orderly home. Appreciate
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I’ve somewhat positioned myself as the anti-game dating coach in these corners. While other people talk about it constantly, I tend to minimize it… focusing instead on the deep work.But the truth is, I’m not anti-game. It’s a Pillar of Attraction (Persona).I simply speak out against it, because I see it overdone. Case study #1:
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I was on call with a client the other day, and as is not-atypical, when trying to explain something to him I came up with a novel explanation. A new interpretation of the universe, if you will. It has to do with my new thing recently about “intuitive approaches” For those who have been sleeping
As you know, I put out a little advisory yesterday to women. It was direct. It was harsh. And, it was true. But what’s also true — and men don’t quite appreciate the difficulty of this — is the apparent paradox women need to navigate between biological and psychological attraction. Women need to be beautiful
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