Going to keep this one brief since it’s a bit late and I have a Beaujolais and tracksuit party to go to… despite — or should I say, especially — due to our first snowstorm. (it’s this sort of magical randomness that makes me love NYC) Anyway, the headline is a topic I find comes up with […]
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Last week I had a call with a new client about his current romantic situation. This is a wealthy, attractive, smart guy. He’s built a big business for himself and has had no lack of beautiful, feminine women over the last couple of years. Nevertheless, he’s been struggling to find a woman that he wants
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I am currently dealing with two clients who are relatively inexperienced with women and, since we’ve been working together, have in the last couple of weeks started seeing girls. One of these guys is in college, and met the girl at an extracurricular hobby. The other, a young professional who met a lady at a
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My wife and I have a little Halloween tradition we’ve started of watching the Rocky Horror Picture Film each year around that spooky night. (Last year we saw a live performance in a movie theatre while drunk off flat champagne… good times) Anyway, something struck me last year and was internalized even further when I
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I briefly tweeted out a thread yesterday on this topic before deleting it. (The topic wasn’t “red meat” for the twitter… and perhaps a bit too controversial… plus I think threads have become passé) But I figured why not turn it into an email for you guys instead, even if it is a bonus. This
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Yesterday we talked about the “mommy girlfriend” — an insidious problem for the smothered, modern man. Today we’re going to talk about his corollary — the “daddy issues” girl. Now, the problem with a single mother or weak father in the household with a boy is that the boy will grow up coddled and dissociated
“It would be great if you can write about “guys who look for a mother in their girlfriend” i.e. mommy complex or Mamma’s boy. It’s not completely clear to me.” I feel like I’ve covered this topic before but I’ll attempt to go a bit deeper… in the modern age especially, it’s crucial to understand.
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I was about halfway through an article on Introverted Feeling (Fi) vs Extroverted Feeling (Fe) in seduction, when I bailed. This happens from time to time with writing. I have an idea, and think it will be great (Extroverted intuition) And then I apply my critical lens to it (Introverted thinking) and realize I just
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Another day, another big Twitter argument with “that” corner of the internet. And all because of a little bitty quote of mine from Monday’s email Rivelino (@alpharivelino) sent out: “Ethical players must stay away from decent girls, or must change their ways and date them seriously. You are scum otherwise, no matter what you tell
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This past weekend a friend was visiting from across the pond. It had been awhile since we last talked, and she’s a chatterbox, so once we cracked open some wine the stories just kept pouring out. We were out until 4AM last night for my wife’s surprise birthday… so it’s going to take me some
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