A reader writes in: Ive been talking to this girl for the past 5 months. We got pretty close made out a few times. In the last month we had a few arguments and now she wants nothing to do with me. She says im a bad person and she was wrong about me but […]
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Cutting straight to the point, there are a lot of reasons why men today “hold back” from talking to women. Some of these are personal. The guys are afraid to approach. Others are social. They’ve been told approaching women is weird. And on top of these are layered the tactical. They just don’t know what
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Yesterday on Twitter I made some comments about a little strategy for guys who are “average” looking (or below) to get more girls when they go out. Well to sum up: “these guys should go out with attractive friends who aren’t particularly good with women. Girls will be much more open to your advances when
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Got a great question from a reader on this the other day so let’s explore, shall we? Persona and Personality confuse people for obvious reasons. Persona is like a social veneer we put on around people – a way of acting that is universally attractive. Personality, on the other hand, is who we are —
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So to continue with these 80s movies themes, last week I also saw the Breakfast Club. Which turned out to be a very, very interesting exploration of sexual psychology. Let’s talk first about the biggest character in the film, Bender. Bender is a grungy, edgy guy who dresses like a rockstar, does drugs, disrespects authority,
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Last week I did a bit of a “binge” on 80s movies… an era of cult classic “coming of age” films. One I hadn’t seen in easily a decade was Ferris Bueller’s Day Off. And man was I glad I revisited it. A bit of a spoiler on the plot (I don’t feel bad, the
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Short email here, since we’ve got another one coming out later this afternoon. So got asked this fun question a few days ago from a former client: What is the fundamental issue men who are struggling with women all have in common? I’ll cut right to the chase… To be honest, I’m not sure there
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So as many of you who follow me saw, we had another little spat with the red pill guys last night. Not sure exactly how it happened. I haven’t mentioned them in ages. Think a fan might have tagged them in a thread calling them out on my behalf (thanks dude lol). At any rate,
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I got asked this question a bit ago surprisingly not from one of you dear gentlemen, but @sarahjeangosney (follow if you want to see what healthy female self-improvement looks like). Cutting to the chase… the truth is, I didn’t make my decision as most guys say you should. I didn’t do a long trial period
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This topic is based on a reader’s question… which I going to paraphrase. Basically, it had to do with the emails I sent out a few days ago on “Choosing Women.” In it, I talked about the idea of making sure YOU were doing the pursuing of a woman… not her. He wondered how this
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