One of the key things you NEED to understand if you’re ever going to succeed with women is that attention is everything to them. It’s what they chase. To the extent they care about wealth, it’s because money grants them more attention. Diamonds — attention. Fashion — attention. Attention gets to the heart of the female identity […]
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Quick little story I wanted to share with you guys. As many of you know, there’s been a few ripples of problems in the UK with cold approaching. Two court cases are ongoing right now, involving guys who made women uncomfortable during their approach. (For what it’s worth, while the one involving a young anxious
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So the other weekend comi-con hit NYC, and I found myself at their official afterparty. Full disclosure: I know absolutely nothing about comics. Seen barely any superhero movies, the genre just doesn’t do all that much for me. But, a friend of mine was at the main event, dressed up as “fat thor” (absolutely incredible
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A reader writes in: Hey Pat Morning mate. I was reading some of your stuff on your webpage on dynamics I understand it from an early POV or mid POV in a relationship, but im questioning if suppose you’re in a long relationship +7-10 yrs what happens if embers die down how does a man rekindle
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So end of last week while talking about the extremely fucked up court case in the UK re: a socially anxious kid getting prosecuted for talking to a girl, I promised I’d tell a tale about a similar experience yours truly went through. An experience that helped me to understand just how the above court case
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So word on the street, a big day of confusion and mourning for the daygame community. Tom Toreo, a brit who built his reputation as the top disciple of the original daygamers — Yad and Andy Yosha — has gone into digital hiding. The reason, it seems? Some guy he had worked with, and had
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Shorter email today, since we’ve been getting a bit long-winded recently. I was out saturday night with my wife, people watching at a local yuppie bar. I haven’t sat out in such a place in awhile, so was good to remind myself what the vibe is like. Took me back BIG TIME to my “glory
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A reader writes in: So about two months ago I cut out drinking completely from my life – not that I used to extensively drink but it it didn’t serve me at all even in social occasions – it brought my energy down. I’m much more energetic, intuitive, mindful & aware when I’m out with
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Got some thoughtful comments from Nash himself yesterday on LMR (“last minute resistance”) I wanted to explore on here for you. In it he mentions Brian Begin / TheFearless Man’s talk at the 21Convention a few years back. To paraphrase: I am on a somekind of internal quest around LMR. I think it is the
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A subscriber writes in: I have a bit of a luxury or somewhat unusual problem. I can’t get rid of a girl. She is 25 and actually good looking (though I strongly assume she already has quite a history with guys). Well, she is chasing me, she loves me. Since 2,5 years already. I told
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