The other week, something that doesn’t usually happen occurred that was a bit disappointing. A client who had signed up to work with me backed out on his word, and bailed. Of course, this wasn’t much of a surprise. I could see this happening in real time. The lack of follow-through in what we agreed […]
Which Coaching Matters More: Deep Work or Bootcamps? Read More »
The other day I received a brief question from a reader regarding a previous email: “Men want to be admired; women want to be desire.” Could you explain this a bit more, the difference between being admired and desired? Or do you have an article you could point me to? —— I don’t have an article addressing
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It’s no secret: women are making a lot more moolah today. And so more and more guys are getting a little more self-conscious about their financial situation. Hypergamy dictates that women only date across and up. So what to do if your bank account isn’t looking so pretty? Well, a little context to the above
Are You Too Poor For Women? Read More »
Every now and then I’ll get a question from some prospective client or observer. “Well, Pat you’re not dating anymore… things have changed a lot in the last couple years… should you really be giving dating advice anymore?” It’s a real big thinkus. Though in all fairness — I get it. How could I, someone
Should Pat Stedman Retire? Read More »
An observation on a call with a client got me thinking about something. Something I haven’t talked all too much about. And yet, something that many guys have witnessed and wondered about. What fascinating little phenomenon am I talking about? Female escalation. As in, you’re on a date… and despite you not really doing anything,
Women Do All The Work… For You? Read More »
Received the following request for this topic the other day: It’s an interesting phenomenon, and a lot of guys have mixed feelings on the topic. I won’t go into too much depth here… (It’s one of the topics I cover extensively in my course, which BTW is set for release Monday November 25th…) But a
When She Calls You “Daddy” Read More »
GaryPUA put out the following interesting, and very accurate, observation the other day: The tweet speaks for itself, and I don’t need to much explain it. But I do want to elaborate so you can glean something a bit deeper out of it. When a girl is laughing at everything you say, she DOES want
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Yesterday the great daygamer Nash had an interesting thread on the different types of “mindsets” guys have when they daygame… and their commensurate results. He noted that guys who feel like they NEED to approach do poorly, guys who WANT to see some results… but guys who approach “out of choice” do the best. He’s
Choice vs Want vs Need Read More »
One of the big divides between “red pill” / pick up communities and the mainstream is about age. Which age of a girl is appropriate for a guy to date, and which isn’t? A lot of people, older women of course, but even other middle aged guys with daughters… find the impulse to date “low”
Is Dating Younger Women OK? Read More »
