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Manosphere R*tardation On Full Blast
Recently there was a tweet going around that got some traction. And some of you asked me to comment: As the title of this post suggests, the advice above is full-blown manosphere retardation. It’s one of those tweets that not only pretends to be “alpha” and “logical” in order to rationalize emotional avoidance… but belies a complete
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“Who The Hell Is Pat Stedman?”
A lot of you guys know Nash from @DaysOfGame_com on Twitter. (If you don’t, he’s one of my most recommended follows, so get on that) Good guy. SMART guy. I met him in NYC a few months back for some lunch and wine… we talked for hours, and if we didn’t have appointments we could have spent
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3 Pillars of Attraction (21 Convention Speech 2019)
PS Go here for my article on the 3 Pillars of Attraction.
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Reader Mailbag: Girl with BF Flirting, Hot Lead Turned Cold
Yo Pat, I want your perspective on a situation I had a few months ago: I was out at a bar one night and I danced with a girl who was VERY receptive to me. Made out with me enthusiastically, followed my lead in everything, and the masculine/feminine energy was strongly there. I sat down
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The Failures of Fantasy
Had a conversation with a client the other day, where a very common problem I’ve seen presented itself. Said client was looking for a high quality girl in his community. Unfortunately, these girls are pretty tough to find in his area. So when one he hadn’t heard of was recommended by a friend, he was
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How To Kiss A Strange Woman
Great video hit twitter today that I had to comment on: That look on her face is pure magic. Her day has been changed. Perhaps even the course of her life. And all of it from a random guy, who decided while she was on television to go and give her a kiss. “But Pat,
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Zoomer Girls and Whores
I tweeted something out the other week: Broke: All Women Are Like That Woke: All Women Aren’t Like That Bespoke: All Women Are Like That *In Their Generation* I kid, of course. But there is truth in it… as you might surmise. Zoomer culture is different compared to other generations. And while my clientele remains
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Reader Mailbag: Dating Separated Women, Ethical Players
Hey Pat, Hope its going well man! Been a reader of your material and I’m a big fan. It’s really increased my level of confidence and understanding of women. I see you answer reader’s questions from time to time and I always find that super applicable. I’m in sort of an interesting situation myself and
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Is The Issue Really Masculinity?
Was exposed to an interesting thread the other day worth commenting on: Unsurprisingly, I don’t really disagree with the fundamental content of the thread. As my good friend Hutton has said: “the sexes win or lose together” Anyone promoting better understanding between men and women — with acceptance of differences, and without judgment — is a
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