Some of my most popular emails have basically been analyzing gossip. Whether it’s celebrity news or just something I saw on Twitter, it’s a ton of fun to analyze a situation and draw conclusions based on rules of human nature. The thing is, gossip is normally a very low-vibration pursuit. So why do I do […]
Pat Stedman, King Of Gossip? Read More »
When I was a little kid, one of my favorite games was playing with toy guns outside. Maybe I’d be in WW2, or maybe on some alien planet. But my best friend and I would turn my quarter acre backyard into a vast imaginary landscape, replete with machine gun nests, enemy bases, and sniper dugouts.
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One of the biggest difficulties guys have in dating isn’t understanding ideas around attraction conceptually. It’s calibrating them effectively in practice. Which is why I wanted to highlight two tweets from the great Nash I saw on Twitter recently: These are masterful examples of how to handle two of the biggest “disrespectful” behaviors guys encounter
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Recently had a tweet go viral about a girl getting some street food: It’s funny what gets attention and what doesn’t. This was a throwaway comment, but apparently the last thing you want to do today is come between a western woman and her psychiatric medication. YetI stand by what I said about more and
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Traditionalists are generally against moving in with a woman until you’re married. This is one of those things that I used to think was silly, over-conservatism, but as I’ve gotten older, I can see a lot of truth to it. Because something very dangerous happens when you move in with a woman. I’m not talking
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As you obviously know, I work with guys on their dating and relationship problems. Sometimes these problems have to do with attracting women. Sometimes the issue is attracting the right women. Other times it’s about keeping the right woman attracted. And still other times, it’s simply about breaking away from the wrong woman. (NOTE: I go into
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A reader writes in: I’m nearing the end of grad school and took some time to isolate and think, take inventory. I realized I’ve become miserable to the fact that I have no social circle anymore. In high school I was in the football team, in college I made new friends at the boxing gym
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Really interesting tweet came up the other day covering a subject I don’t believe I’ve touched upon in detail. So what is the difference between a woman with mommy issues instead of daddy issues? Most guys know about girls with “daddy issues.” They either didn’t get enough attention, or didn’t get enough boundaries, so they act out.
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Last Sunday was Latin Easter. And now that I have kids, I have the privilege of directing an easter egg hunt. My daughter is just over 2, and while this is her third “hunt” technically, this is the first year she’s really gotten into it. We spent a solid 20 minutes searching for eggs around
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You hear quite a bit in the manosphere about women hitting the wall (at 30, if not 25), in contrast to men, who keep improving well into their 40s… only then declining gradually. As the saying goes, “men age like wine, women age like milk” But is it true? Well, as not only a dating/relationship
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