Could use some guidance on this… I have a black girlfriend. We’ve been dating 6 weeks and everything has been great. Deep connection. Aligned values. Undeniable physical attraction. It’s the most heart centered relationship of my life. We were driving on Saturday and she saw a Trump 2020 sign & cracked a joke. She then […]
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I tweeted out today some observations about what’s happening in the online realm. Which, considering this stuff is my “business” — might be considered a bit risky. “Wait Pat, you’re saying that your clients aren’t getting great results online? What does that say about you?” It says I’m honest. It’s not just my clients, it’s
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One thing that seems incomprehensible, and indeed threatens permanent resentment for many “recovering nice guys” is why — despite all the kind things they did — the women they loved and cared for could act so cruel to them. These are guys who were, on paper, the perfect boyfriends — they were considerate, generous, patient.
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One of the topics I’ve “pioneered” in the manosphere is the concept of “Girl Game” — the things women do to seduce men, and how men need to protect themselves accordingly. And because so few gurus talk about it — most guys are concerned with gaming women, not preventing themselves from being gamed (a big mistake) —
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Hey Pat,I appreciate your work, it has seriously helped me better my life. But I’d like your help with a situation I’m in right now. Last Friday, after dating for 4 months, I told my girlfriend I love her. She responded saying she loves me too. But on our most recent date, she told me
You Say “I Love You”… But She Doesn’t Back Read More »
Watched a movie — Midsommar — the other night that was very interesting. (Spoiler alerts for the first ~30 minutes of the film ahead) For our purposes, however, I’m going to focus on the central relationship dynamic in the film: Christian and Dani. Christian and Dani’s relationship is, in a word, dysfunctional. And unfortunately represents
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Short and sweet content for you today. In yesterday’s email we talked about the problems smart guys have with women. The content revolved mostly around behavior and mindset. However, there is another more “macro” piece to the puzzle that applies to many in the high-IQ category. Their life is their work… and they don’t do
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It shouldn’t come as a surprise given my material… but pretty much all of my clients have been intelligent guys. Some simply above average, others “galaxy-brain” tier (150+ IQ) And yet, it’s somewhat strange that such men — so astute otherwise — would need help with women. On paper you’d think they’d have an EASIER
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We talk a lot about things you can do to improve yourself with women. Getting in shape. Becoming a social kingpin. Learning game and seduction. And of course, getting your beliefs sorted so you have unshakable confidence. (Get my masterclass if you want to level up on these) But there are unfortunately some things we
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The other day on my dating/relationship periscope (check out these weekly wine Q&As if you haven’t) I got a little “deep” on one of my questions. The low down: A guy was considering breaking things off with a girl he’d been dating for about 6 months, in part because he felt he wasn’t ready, and could “upgrade.”
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