Thursday Night Live with Tony Bruno
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Dating
16 Candles Attraction Strategies
So last week in NYC, I decide to go back in time and watch some old films. One of which is the classic, Sixteen Candles. Now, I know this is embarrassing… but this was actually the first time I’d seen the film. Interestingly, the first “high school drama” I ever saw was the parody, “Not Another
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Laws, Pillars, and Dimensions of Attraction with Pat Stedman
David had me on the arensal podcast – we go deep into this blog post and more. Check out the show!
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Why Every Guy Eventually Leaves The Game
A about a month ago, one of the big daygamers on Twitter, @broodingsea wrote about the end of a fling he had with a girl.I recommend you read the post… it’s very heartfelt and genuine, and most importantly gives you a taste of REALITY when it comes to dating. You see a lot of guys
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Cocky vs Cruel
Had a question crop up by @jaguarness the other day I wanted to get to, as it’s one many guys struggle with: My answer? Well, obviously it is a fine line, and getting it right is mostly a calibration issue. Guys who aren’t used to being a little cocky will likely overdo it at first
Reading the Tea Leaves of a Tease
A reader writes in: Here’s my question… going to do my best to give you ‘context’ as briefly as possible. About two years ago I had a great date with someone I felt I had a connection with. We hooked up, and she pursued after our date by texting me a couple of days in a
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Is “Sapiosexual” A Real Thing?
The other day the great Komander Xander commented on the following tweet: Which was a great opportunity for me, as I realized this new fad of modern women claiming to be “sapiosexual” is something I’ve never addressed. So what’s the story with it? Is it real or not? As usual, there’s some nuance to this. Sapiosexuality means
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Where Can You Meet Women Who Aren’t Broken?
A reader writes in: Hi Pat, Personal development puts me in a dilemma. I value connection. I want to be in a relationship and I want hot sex. But I am so often let down by most of my peers in their 20s that I interact with, including the girls in this age range whom I’m
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The 3 Dimensions of Attraction
Those of you familiar with my work should be familiar at this point with my work on the three pillars of attraction. (I gave a great speech on it in 2019 at the 21 Convention – if you missed it, check it out) However, if you’ve been following me recently on twitter, you’d also see
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Is She Really “Tier 1”?
A reader writes in: ‘Hello Pat, I trust this message meets you well. I have an issue about dating to relate to you. I hope you find time amid your busy schedule to provide clarity. I met a girl I am attracted to, and we started speaking. In my observation, I would say she’s a
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