Common question I get — and one that arose with a client recently — is how you can know whether a girl is “the one.” Is there something about her that’s different than other girls? What emotions should you feel? It’s a good question, though obviously a difficult one to answer. First because of the […]
A reader writes in: — Blushing at that intro! However the question is a very good one. Why DO “chads” so often end up with unattractive women? One of the many phenomena “the red pill” would rather ignore than attempt to explain… because it contradicts some of their deeply held beliefs about “alpha males.” First,
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A funny tweet from “mentally ill women twitter” was brought to my attention this morning: I was asked, “Hey Pat, would love to hear your take on this question and why women overwhelmingly respond “no” to this” Well, to answer the first part — yes, women *absolutely* stress about the “one who got away.” There are
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Common misconception we’ll be addressing today: What exactly is going on when a girl shows interest off the bat — with minimal to no “game” on your end — but then when you follow up, she disappears? Guys learning to attract women are obviously anxious to get signals from them. And so understandably assume that
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Was chatting with a client the other day when an amusing yet tragic scenario came up. First a little backstory: My client is pretty good with women. Attractive dude, knows game and how to flirt. Girls often take an interest in him, and he tends to encourage them by “pulling back” exactly when he needs
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Been observing something the last couple of months that’s incredibly fascinating. When I saw it the first time, I considered it an exception. When I saw it the second time, a curiosity. Now I’ve seen it 5+ times among my clients and it seems to be gaining speed. And so I’m taking this shift very
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My good friend Hutt had quite the observation the other day: Makes you wonder why no one talks about this. Because it’s one of the more common phenomena among women. Women — with very few exceptions — go along with what the dominant social influence in their lives is. For most women, that’s mainstream culture;
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A new year, a new manosphere motif. First it was cold showers, then black coffee and rare steaks. Now the current fad among the gentlemen on Twitter seems to be semen retention. The idea going around is that “holding it in” isn’t simply good from a health standpoint (there are a lot of nutrients in
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We all know it’s true: women can be difficult to get out. Whether it’s online or in person, meeting women feels like somewhat of a numbers game. A lot of them waste our time, evading dates while farming out attention… or “agreeing” to a date, only to flake. And yet, not all women do this. Some are
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