It’s funny how it tends to happen like this. But yesterday I had two situations with clients occur — and while the scenarios were different — each had remarkably similar themes. In the case of one of these clients, he had been dating a girl for about a month. Things were going well, they had […]
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Great show with Tony Bruno once again. We discuss the enigmatic seasons of female sexuality… and how exactly a woman’s interest in sex changes based on her life and circumstances.
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Last night I had a bit of fun rattling the hornet’s nest with these tweets: Apparently, much of the trad community REALLY doesn’t like it when you infer that a virgin in her mid-20s who can’t find a man might have some problems. Because if a girl is a virgin that automatically means she’s a
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Something very interesting was reported the other day after the Rittenhouse trial. It turned out that the girlfriend of one of the guys Kyle shot (in self-defense) was “sympathetic” to what Kyle was going through and “offered to be there for him if he needed it.” She then, after testifying, passed him her number in
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Had a conversation with a client the other day that reminded me there’s a topic I haven’t much addressed. We’ve talked before about the romance process, and how it’s the man who pursues the woman. And how it’s a woman’s prerogative to put breaks on that process — to create obstacles, to say “not yet.”
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Interesting thread from Nash about a dating guru the other day: Full disclosure: I’m not familiar with any of Zan’s work, though I have heard of him before. His book The Alabaster Girl was recommended to me years back by a very artistic PUA, but I never ended up picking up. What Nash says above about Zan is pretty
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Yet another provocation on the timeline turned up the other day. Anddd I’ve got a couple things to say about this one. (Highlights in text so no need to watch if you don’t want to) Let’s dissect this bit by bit: — “If he touches you on the first date, he’s not that into you.
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A very provocative tweet went around the other day: The question: is it true? This is one of those very unsatisfying answers… yes and no. “Yes” because he is correct that a girl at 28 should be on track for marriage. And “yes,” she is probably looking for some sort of clarity around whether this relationship will
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Yesterday we talked about what kind of girls typically fall into the Bangzone — the female version of the Friendzone, where a girl hooks up with a guy she likes regularly but can’t get his commitment. As you might imagine, this is a difficult situation for a girl. Like a guy in the corresponding Friendzone,
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Today’s topic is a little spicy. We’ll be talking about the classic “1-10” ranking system that guys have for girls. And what the “Pat Stedman” version is… and why it matters. But before we go in: I know women hate this. Sorry. Not much else I can say though. This is a natural way men
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