I was recently linked me to this guy’s dating profile and asked to write an email about his attempt to find a wife: To a certain extent I’m actually at a loss about what to say. I don’t have an issue with matchmaking — which you might say is the same as what this guy is requesting. …
Probably one of the biggest refrains in the manosphere is that women are attracted to masculinity, and are looking for masculine guys. Obviously, this is true. But what is also true, yet verboten to discuss, is that women can also be attracted to effeminate guys. Indeed, they are often seduced by them. The struggling artist. …
The 5 Types of Guys I Work With Unsurprisingly for a dating and relationship coach, I’m frequently asked “what sort of stuff do you work on with clients?” To my embarrassment, I am usually pretty poor at answering this question. In most professions these days, you are essentially a specialist. And this is no different …
A lot of people doom-posting about a viral tweet regarding a girl’s online dating sexual history: Frankly, I understand why. When you see stats like that, it can make you lose hope in being able to find a quality woman. Extrapolate that half year outwards, and you are looking at a girl with hundreds of sexual partners. …
A few years back guys doing cold approaches began to have a bit of a curveball. You’d approach a girl, strike up a conversation with her. Things would be going well. Naturally, you ask for her number. But then she demurs… “uhh I don’t give out my number, do you have instagram instead?” When I …
A reader writes in: I am a regular reader of your newsletter from 2+ years. Today i got a doubt while seeing a tweet on timeline: In earlier time women used to give birth, breastfeed and take care of child. Men used to breadwinner of family. So men has some value associated to them. But …
One of the things that’s quite common in manosphere is this idea that dating and relationship issues are more or less the same. Why do relationships fail or get stagnant? Because the guy “isn’t desirable anymore.” He’s not alpha. It is taken for granted that these single guys won’t ever mess this up — in spite …
So as many of you guys know, one of my most distinct and powerful concepts I’ve pushed is the idea of “friend-zoning” women. For those who don’t know, this is basically making a woman — and yes, often an attractive woman — your friend rather than pursuing her romantically. The goal being to “plant seeds” …
