Dating

Why It Is Different With Her

There are some subjects you are just not supposed to talk about when it comes to attraction. Discussion of techniques is expected. The need to calibrate your behavior based on context, encouraged. The role of intuition, begrudgingly acknowledged — though not much understood. Most people assume, to the extent “intuition” in an interaction with a […]

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Why Women Are Single In Their 30s

My response to the infamous RFH went viral yesterday: Unsurprisingly, many men took issue with this observation (you can check the tweet replies if you wish, don’t want to put the spotlight on anyone who doesn’t wish it). Their primary arguments, to summarize, were: 1) Women are responsible for their own outcomes — if they

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Do Men Want “Crazy” Girls?

Put out a tweet yesterday that went somewhat viral: Unsurprisingly, it pissed off a ton of guys. Many insisted I had issues for even suggesting it. This isn’t much of a shocker for me. I’ve long said that while the manosphere is decent at understanding female nature, they are terrible at understanding their own. Most

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The Truth About Female Horniness

This will probably be an exceptionally controversial email. But I want to open the door on this subject, because I find the commentary on female sexuality for the most regurgitated and unconsidered in this corner of the internet. First, let’s take a few well established observations and lay them out: Then let’s take two competing

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When Money DOES Create Desire

I’m writing my book at the moment and don’t have much time for emails, but this topic has been coming up a lot with clients… so I’m going to cut right to the chase. As I wrote about long ago, money does NOT generally create desire for women. It creates comfort. Gorgeous women bang dudes

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