LEARN TO SAY NO AND DO WHAT YOU WANT It was a warm, fall Sunday afternoon – and we had arrived. Mike’s Seafood. The *best* seafood on the Jersey Shore. Kate was eager for some crab legs. Me, not so much. Normally, I’d be right there with her – but the tedious labor of extracting […]
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WHEN BUILDING SEXUAL TENSION BECOMES A MISTAKE I’ve recently received some flak for a position I’ve taken that “it can be better to wait to have sex (or even kiss) a woman on a first date.” Here’s why: A friend of mine had a GREAT date with a woman, filled with flirting, chemistry, etc. But he didn’t kiss her
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SHOULD MEN CRY? Unlike many in the modern age, I am not one that thinks men are better off now that emoting has become encouraged. A man’s self-respect and a man’s fortitude come from taking tough times under the chin, and ruling their emotions… not letting their emotions rule them. The lack of this stoicism
WHEN THE CLOUD OF DEPRESSION HANGS OVER YOU The last couple of days I have been depressed. I’ve found it hard to concentrate on work or muster much of any desire to do anything. I’ve felt anxious. My heart seemed like it was trying to break itself out of my chest. My breathing was short
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THE SPRINGS OF YOUR LIFE I am currently typing this article from a friend’s flat in London, over by Baron’s Court (if you know the area). And I’m not going to lie, it feels a bit surreal. You see, when I quit my job and started musing over this business, I moved to London to
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LITTLE MOMENTS DEFINE YOU This past weekend I was up in Maine at my cousin’s wedding. It was a beautiful wedding at a farm in the countryside. The couple was surrounded by family and friends, and after hours of drinking and dancing, the reception climaxed with a solid ten minutes of fireworks. It was a
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WHICH WAY TO APPROACH A GIRL IS BEST? The Pick Up world has long been divided between two ways to approach a girl: Direct and Indirect. And it’s about time we addressed them. So here’s the low down: Direct approaches are when you go up to a girl and express interest in her directly (duh).
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WHY YOU NEED AMBITION There is one thing all men that have “top tier” women have in common. It’s not looks. It’s not wealth. It’s not even talent. You guessed it… It’s ambition. Women are by their fundamental nature drawn to men who seek to rise above other men. This is an uncomfortable truth that
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HOW TO TELL IF YOU HAD A GOOD DATE A message the other day from one of my clients caught my attention: “As you know all my dates have been one and dones. I wouldn’t recognize when to attempt to pursue anything beyond a 1st date if it hit me in the face. What indicators
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AS YOU ARE: NICK SPARKS BOOK REVIEW I’ve had a lot of mentors in the dating world. But none changed my life quite so much as Nick Sparks. I trained under him in person and received perspective from him in an alumni group for years afterwords. Though he is by no means the only source
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