THE POWER OF THE ASSUMPTION WHEN PICKING UP GIRLS Most guys freeze when they see an attractive girl walking down the street. They glance at her, their heart pounds, and they ultimately shy away, wondering what they could possibly say to her to get her interested in them. “Should I ask her a question?” “Do […]
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HOW TO GET A GIRL’S NUMBER Ahh, phone numbers. One of the most talked about things in the world of dating and relationships. Getting a girl’s number – or in Pick Up parlance, “number closing” – is such an important stage that many men view it as a milestone as significant as kissing or sleeping with
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HOW TO HANDLE A MOODY GIRLFRIEND Anybody who’s been in a serious relationship knows: with strong emotions comes intense fights. Once we care about someone and feel comfortable enough with them to not risk “turning them off,” we often start to take them – and their emotional energy – for granted. In other words, when
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IS PAT STEDMAN A MISOGYNIST? One of the most interesting and lovely things that’s happened to me recently as I’ve become a bit more outspoken about my views on dating (and more) is that I’ve been called a misogynist. Is it true? Am I really a misogynist? Well that depends. Truth be told, I’m not
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3 REASONS DEFIANT DONALD TRUMP GETS HOT CHICKS This past weekend I was at a beach bar with a couple of friends and Kate. It was Labor Day weekend and the place was packed, but fortunately, Kate and I managed to take control of a meant-to-be-decorative life guard stand, which not only provided us with seats but a perfect view of
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4 HARD LESSONS LEARNED FROM THE PICK UP COMMUNITY There was a time when I counted my days by the number of attractive girls who walked by me, who I let remain unspoken to. It was the number of girls I desired — not just sexually, but socially and romantically — that I couldn’t work up
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THE SECRET TO CONFIDENCE I talk a lot about things you can do to get a girl. The right way to approach her… The best way to talk to her… The appropriate way to express your desire for her… And they’re all, obviously, very useful. They teach you what to do and give you the
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WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU DON’T FOCUS ON PROCESS? The other weekend I built a sandcastle. As some of you may know, building a sandcastle is one of my favorite things to do. It’s physical, meditative, and artistic, and for me, also filled with nostalgia. I grew up helping my dad and uncle build sandcastles and cathedrals,
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THE IMPACT OF SELF-SABOTAGING BELIEFS Let’s be honest with ourselves before we begin. Almost everybody wants something in their life a little bit different. This doesn’t mean that they’re unhappy with their lives, or that this missing thing is torturing them; stopping them from achieving their dreams. It’s just that humans in general are always
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WHY WOMEN ACT CRAZY I was talking to a friend the other week about men and women (incidentally one of my favorite topics), when the conversation took a turn towards the idea of “sensitivity.” If you’ve been following the “great war of the sexes” as I have been, you’d know that sensitivity is, well, a very
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