The 5 Types of Guys I Work With Unsurprisingly for a dating and relationship coach, I’m frequently asked “what sort of stuff do you work on with clients?” To my embarrassment, I am usually pretty poor at answering this question. In most professions these days, you are essentially a specialist. And this is no different …
If there is one topic that gets the average man to swallow his pride and seek out relationship advice, it’s sex. And the reason is simple: for the vast majority of men, the longer they are in their relationship, the less sex they have. The “honeymoon phase,” where a man and his woman sleep together …
A new year, a new manosphere motif. First it was cold showers, then black coffee and rare steaks. Now the current fad among the gentlemen on Twitter seems to be semen retention. The idea going around is that “holding it in” isn’t simply good from a health standpoint (there are a lot of nutrients in …
Last September I took a week off to hike 80 miles of the Appalachian Trail, from the start of the Delaware Water Gap in NJ to Greenwood Lake, NY. Not such a tough hike, really. Even amateurs manage 15 miles a day up and downhill — I would be averaging only 11-12 — and this …
Those of you familiar with my work should be familiar at this point with my work on the three pillars of attraction. (I gave a great speech on it in 2019 at the 21 Convention – if you missed it, check it out) However, if you’ve been following me recently on twitter, you’d also see …
Men don’t usually talk about plastic surgery. When they consider looks, it’s mostly in the category of fitness. If you have a “meh” feature, or if your face looks a bit weathered — if you’ve got muscle, you look like a man. You’re good. But if there’s one cosmetic area guys tend to be particularly …
An occasional concern I get from prospective clients is whether there is going to be “actionable advice” in our workings together. They know I get “deep work” and know my stuff about women… but will I tell them specifically what to do and say to a girl? Are they gonna get the right homework assignments, and systems …
As usual for most mornings, today I woke up, and after some light reading and journaling checked twitter to see what dumb stuff was going on in the world (and what clever takes my mutuals had to say about it). But to my surprise, today in my DMs weren’t questions about some situation with so-and-so’s …
I tweeted out today some observations about what’s happening in the online realm. Which, considering this stuff is my “business” — might be considered a bit risky. “Wait Pat, you’re saying that your clients aren’t getting great results online? What does that say about you?” It says I’m honest. It’s not just my clients, it’s …
