DO LOOKS MATTER? THE UNCOMFORTABLE TRUTH If there’s one thing people hate talking about, it’s looks. And I get why. Looks are superficial. Physical attractiveness is subjective. And as a society we already assign far too much value to how people appear, and not enough to who they are. Why talk about it more? Why ask […]
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WHY SMART PEOPLE ARE STUPID (FOLLOW YOUR INSTINCTS) Have you noticed something about a lot of smart people? They’ve gone to good schools… They’ve studied challenging subjects… They’ve gotten good grades… They keep up-to-date with the world… They are extraordinarily knowledgable, overflowing with facts and data… They are even usually very eloquent… Yet talk to
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MAKING FRIENDS: THE 4 TYPES OF PEOPLE YOU’LL MEET Your social network is perhaps the most important thing you will develop. Friends make the quality of your life better, expand your opportunities both professionally and socially, and are the single best way to meet and date the girls you will connect with the most. Yet
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THE WAY OF THE SUPERIOR EGO (PART 2: UNHEALTHY EGO) In our last post we talked about the difference between a healthy ego and an unhealthy ego, and how a healthy ego can propel you to happiness and freedom. But how do you make the shift? How do you take an unhealthy ego that makes
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THE WAY OF THE SUPERIOR EGO (PART 1: HEALTHY EGO) When I was 16 I got rejected from a college. Not just any college, mind you, but the college of my dreams. A top tier school, one my whole family had gone to – sister, uncle, father, grandfather – and I was supposed to be
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WHY EVERY MAN SHOULD GO HUNTING The woods are lovely, dark, and deep, But I have promises to keep, And miles to go before I sleep, And miles to go before I sleep. ~ Robert Frost, Stopping by the Woods on a Snowy Evening I climbed with my friend up a hill in the cold
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DON’T BE A NICE GUY TO GET GIRLS A recent article on greatist.com talked about how being nice “may be what your dating game is missing,” and is a trait that “seems to translate into physical attraction.” Is it true? Well obviously, women with a healthy sense of self don’t like to be treated badly. They
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HOW TO BE A LEADER (TRUMP CASE STUDY) Every guy dreams about becoming a leader. It’s in our DNA. We love the thought of people following us, supporting us, admiring us. We love to imagine standing for something against a mighty, oppressive force and conquering it. We love the idea of being our own man,
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HOW TO HANDLE A MOODY GIRLFRIEND Anybody who’s been in a serious relationship knows: with strong emotions comes intense fights. Once we care about someone and feel comfortable enough with them to not risk “turning them off,” we often start to take them – and their emotional energy – for granted. In other words, when
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HOW TO GET PHYSICAL WITH A GIRL Probably one of the biggest questions as a dating coach I get is, “how do I take things physical with a girl?” And I totally get why. Sure, it can be a bit intimidating to say hello to a girl… Asking for her number… But touching her? Getting
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