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How To Host A Party

HOW TO HOST A PARTY Everybody wants friends, and smart people trying to build their social group make it a priority to connect with as many people as possible. But many make a crucial mistake: They never host anything. Knowing how to host a party is the single greatest mark of a social leader. A […]

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5 Reasons To Be A Man Of Integrity

5 REASONS TO BE A MAN OF INTEGRITY The dating world is filled with different conversations about the things you need to do to attract women. For instance: Pick Up Artists focus on the techniques. Red Pill guys love to talk about sexual dynamics and masculinity. The spirituality community is all about unconditional love, communication,

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Are You Thinking Of Breaking Up? Ask Yourself This Question First

THINKING OF BREAKING UP? ASK THIS QUESTION FIRST It’s no secret – many guys have MAJOR problems with their girlfriends. I hear it all the time: Constantly getting nagged… Not having the sex they want… Frequent fighting… Boredom and lack of fulfillment… To be fair these are things common to most relationships at least for

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What Do You Really Want?

HOW TO CONTROL YOUR IMPULSE “Want” is an amorphous word. People “want” to lose weight – and yet they also “want” to eat that bag of potato chips. People “want” to talk to that attractive girl – and yet they also “want” to avoid getting rejected. Which want is the real want? And if one

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The Commitment Dilemma

SHOULD I COMMIT? If you walk down the street, particularly in a big city, one thing stands out to you immediately. Sex. It’s on billboards, with hot girls in lingerie posing seductively. It’s on the sidewalk, with long legs, make-up, and a smile. And when you get home, it’s online with the click of a

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Love Is Not The Most Important Thing

TRUST IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN LOVE You’ll often hear a lot of relationship experts and coaches talk about love in glowing terms. “Love is everything.”
 “Spread love everywhere.” “Love yourself.” “There’s so much love here.” And I agree. Love is a beautiful thing. But when it comes to relationships, love – while necessary – plays

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