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Do Women REALLY Like Assholes?

Spend enough time in this corner of the world, and you’ll hear plenty of bitter men talk about how girls aren’t attracted to “nice guys.” Allegedly, they only like assholes — people who treat them like shit. *Not* the gentlemen who treat them well and take care of them. Is this true? Like most things […]

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“I Don’t Have Time”

Ever had a woman turn you down for sex? No, I’m not talking about a girl you’ve been trying to hook up with… though of course that happens from time to time. I’m talking about girls you’ve slept with before, and that you’ve been actively dating. Not the “conquests,” the one’s you’re committed to. It sucks, right? Here you

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How To Build A Harem (Gamma Game)

Arnie over at the SigmaMind brought to my attention a thread about one “alpha provider’s” extreme move to stop girls from reneging on the hook up once they saw his nice apartment: I love this example because it outlines in full detail the absurd and (to a guy’s perspective) unfair nature of female sexual strategy.

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Homeless Man Mindset

It’s always amusing for me to watch the “storylines” some of these marketing guys use to get guys to jump onboard their products. Consistently, they pander to man’s most base instinct: laziness. Can’t really blame them. (Even if their “hacks” won’t reproduce results in 99.9% of similar guys) Chances are, they’ve found the “exception” —

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Stop Studying Game

A colleague on Twitter the other day commented about how “aspiring PUAs” would throw shade at him if, for instance, he hooked up with a girl because she invited him back to her place — and little work on his part was required. He was somehow “fake” and “not really good at picking up women,” since women were picking

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