Stop Mocking “Motivational Bullshit” Yesterday I found myself exposed to something sick and twisted. I’m not sure if you watch youtube, or have been following the “daddy of five” debacle. But basically, this very low class couple (think honey boo-boo) got into hot water for making money off a channel where they play “pranks” on […]
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It’s no secret that since the dawn of gender equality dating has become more complicated. One area that has particularly gotten people agitated is the issue of money. Many guys (and girls!), understandably, have taken issue with the tradition of guys paying for girls. After all, most women are doing fine for themselves, and many
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I’m sure you’ve been there before. You’re sitting there, eyes locked. You’ve had a great meal. Chemistry is flowing. Sexual tension in the air. Your hand is sidling up closer to hers across the table. Suddenly, the server comes over. “Do you guys want anything else or should I just bring you the check?” You
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The night is approaching, so we’ll cut to the chase here. Most guys looking for a night out on the town will order a beer or a drink. No big deal. An easy way to loosen up and fit in. Only issue is that “beer” often turns from one, to two, to TEN. Before he
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Hey gents – Ever wondered how to tell if an interaction between a guy and a girl is going well? If you’re like most guys, you’ve probably thought success is strongly correlated with time. In other words, the longer you’re in “the set,” the better you’re doing with the girl. After all, a guy who
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Like many people, I’ve spent most of my life yo-yo lifting. I’d swing from being in great shape to fairly bleh. And whenever my figure was off and my psyche was taking a beating every time I looked in the mirror, I’d read everything I could about the “best bodybuilding workouts” — all in an
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Embracing Death A few days ago my wife had a dream that I died. I had had a heart attack. Collapsed right in front of her. I won’t lie, I found it a little funny. I have a relatively morbid sense of humor and don’t take my own death too seriously. But she could barely
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Been working with one of my clients recently on his troubled marriage. It’s a challenging situation to say the least. The usual occurred: Guy makes some big mistakes that kill comfort, guy responds to his mistakes with placating actions that kill desire. (Read: The 2 Sources Of Relationship Conflict) Basically, the more he’s talked to her,
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One thing that fascinates me to death about this corner of the internet is the number of guys who, after learning how to attract women, get involved in sales. But I guess it makes perfect sense… after all, “selling yourself” is basically the nature of dating. Sure, there are different layers to attraction, but at
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A few years back, I heard an interesting story about the early struggles of the Chilean wine industry. Now, everyone knows today Chile makes a good bottle of wine (if too often, a bit “basic”) But most don’t realize that during it’s early commercialization in the 1980s, they had a bit of a problem. Namely, with their
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