Pat Stedman Blog

Why I’ve Been Gone

Hey gents. As many of you have undoubtably realized despite signing up on this list that promised you more, I haven’t had much in the last month or two to say.I think it deserves an explanation. First reason is pretty simple. While I’m learning, I’m still a pretty shitty businessman, and between my clients and […]

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The Ultimate Imperative

THE ULTIMATE IMPERATIVE If you’ve been around our corner of the internet, you’ve probably heard the term “feminine imperative” — coined by the highly influential and insightful Rollo Tomassi — thrown around. For the uninitiated, the feminine imperative is essentially the execution of a woman’s sexual strategy: to sleep with a man who is dominant

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“Hey Baby, What’s Your Type?”

As I’ve been investigating personality, the final pillar of attraction,  I’ve come to realize a couple interesting things: One, your personality plays a pretty big role in who you attract (go figure) But two, it plays much LESS of a role the more psychologically developed you are. Interesting, no? When you’re personality isn’t developed, you

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Who Needs Game?

The other day I read a long, personal email from Alex Allman, a thought leader when it comes to relationships (and a man I deeply respect). It was revealing on the nature of attraction and took on many topics, among them Pick Up. I won’t go into the full email as I actually found most

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Gotta *Not* Catch ‘Em All

So story time… The other weekend at a party, a friend introduced me a guy who was having some trouble in a relationship.  **This is par for the course for me when I go out, and usually I don’t mind. It’s flattering and feels good to help, plus the conversations are usually interesting** Anyway, turns

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