PART 2: PSYCHOLOGICAL ATTRACTION As we discussed in Part 1, pheromones and intelligence lay the ground work for Chemistry to occur. But it is psychology itself that brings two people together, and that is what we will explore now. Our minds are wired in distinct ways, and that wiring determines whether we are drawn to […]
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PART ONE: PHEROMONES AND INTELLIGENCE Previously in our Three Pillars of Attraction series we capped off the Second Pillar of Attraction, Persona. Now we’re going to finally finish it by tackling Personality. The first thing to understand about Personality is that it is fundamentally different from the other two pillars of attraction. It operates in
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This is a topic I’ve written about in the past, but due to some recent demand I want to revisit. There is much going out these days about personality type-attraction (indeed, I’ve got a post dedicated to it coming out this week). The idea is that each personality type has one type in particular that
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In yesterday’s email, I talked about the dangers of Girl Game. Since then some guys have chimed in my Dynamic Men group. (MEN ONLY JOIN HERE) One thought that came up, and one I mostly concur with, is that the “elite” of girls in the looks category (aka “9s and 10s”) rarely possess solid girl
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Yesterday I put out a brief thread on looks and game; I’m going to expand on that here. What prompted me to dive into this topic was a “traditional” girl account I’d seen around before, but recently came into my feed again. The girl is genuinely quite attractive, and interestingly for twitter dot com, not
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I’ve talked many times over the years about the difference between subcommunication vs communication – so much so that it is, in a way, my “niche.” Why do I care so much about it? Let’s return to my Twitter thread the other day about “self vs other orientation” with women and I’ll show you… One
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Nabeel Azeez — the marketing savant who runs drop-kick copy — tweeted out a quote today I had totally forgotten, but got the gears in my mind turning. It was a comment Mike Cernovich made to Roosh V a few years before his big ascent into media stardom: “I’ve got to get out of the manosphere ghetto.” Most
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The other day a tragedy happened. A good friend of my wife and I — one of the coolest, most loving, funny people we knew — died. He was 35. The cause? Alcoholism. He got checked into the hospital earlier this summer with cirrhosis, and almost died then. The rest of the summer he was
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People talk about Alpha and Beta a lot as ways to indicate a woman’s sexual responsiveness to a man. Generally this is shorthand for the “lover-provider” paradigm — the Alphas of course being the lovers, the Betas the providers. This is a useful heuristic in many ways (and a great rhetorical tool, especially if you’re
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The other day I received a message from a guy I respect, and used to do some work with. He was complimenting me on some of the writing I’ve done in the “red pill” community to push back against some of the more “divisive” rhetoric that gets bandied about, and appreciated my nuanced takes. Now,
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