So in my other job, I recently had a big sales opportunity. I was selling a high-quality product at a low price point, to a place that had the space to sell TONS of the product. It would have been a huge coup for me to make this sale… and I was confident about it […]
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Everyone who’s at least somewhat awake to gender dynamics understands, when it comes to preselection, women desire men who are high status and good-looking. Bad looks, you need status. Low status, you need looks. (though note: status is relative to the environment, so don’t think you need to be an international celebrity to have high
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Recently one of my clients and I have been working on getting this girl (who likes him, and has said as much) to hang out. In theory, this should be easy. As I said she’s already expressed interest, and the last date they went on they ended up making out in a back alley. But
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I talk a lot about the importance of strategy over tactics. As in, not focusing on short-term actions that undermine the broader goal. Some examples? – Trying to get a girl when the very act of pursuit undermines your frame– Gaming a girl who is not a good fit for your broader relationship goals– Orienting
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Hey hey, I’m back. Thanks for waiting around. The last 6-7 weeks have been good for me. A lot of changes inside and out, and I’m finally ready to get back in the writing game. Today I want to talk about the interplay between Personality and Persona. As you know, Personality is your psychological type, psychological health,
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Looks like we’re moving into the big leagues! In December this site got reviewed by Hayley Matthews, Editor-In-Chief at DatingAdvice.com The article was a great look at how I got to where I am today and some of my philosophy of “what’s important” when it comes to helping men. Take a look: http://www.datingadvice.com/for-men/pat-stedman-a-holistic-approach-to-improve-dating-mindsets
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My second interview with the great Nabeel Azeez Enjoy! https://www.stitcher.com/show/becoming-the-alpha-muslim/episode/how-to-develop-your-personality-to-become-a-more-attractive-husband-52431342
Yesterday I put out a little thread on tactics / strategy in the realm of Persona. We’re going to explore this a little deeper now as it involves attraction dynamics. Recall the rule of attraction: men and women are attracted to opposite energies. Masculine desires feminine and vice versa. This is an important thing to internalize,
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WHAT IS #UPSTREAM? There have been a lot of comments and questions about #UpstreamTwitter in recent days — what it entails, what we stand for, what we hope to achieve. We appreciate the interest. But I’ll admit, although the the group nominated me to take a stab at it — these aren’t easy questions to
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I am in a serious rush today, so this will be a bit of a “basic bitch” email. But I want to get it out anyway since it’s been awhile since I talked to ya’ll. (in my “other” job this is a very busy time of the year, and as some of you have seen
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