The last email I sent out was a little nuts. I revealed some super nerdy, strange things about myself. The sort of things that aren’t (allegedly) good for sales. (A reminder: I spent 2 days trying to modify a WW2 strategy board game so it would be more historically accurate and “better.” Wait, why did […]
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It’s become apparent over the years that my style is quite different from most of the typical dating coaches. Despite the evolution of “the industry” away from negs, canned PUA routines, etc… people are still grounding themselves in the numbers game. More focus on strategy (physique, lifestyle, masculinity) vs tactics (peacocking, status-faking, game), but still
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“I admire hard work. But it isn’t my gift. And while I will continue to improve my discipline… it never will be. Only once I accepted this did I start to make money. Who understands why?” I tweeted this out the other day and promised to explain why on here (I save the best of
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So all these emails got pushed back because of a couple of incidents I was not expecting. First, I had to run to a wedding way sooner than anticipated. And so my email on work & money was left 30% unfinished. Second, I got poisoned at said wedding. Which completely took me out of commission
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About two years ago I wrote an article on DJ Khaled’s dating advice. It was a silly article. I made fun of DJ Khaled’s brains, while respecting his supreme confidence. (and considered what you really need to get women) But I’m realizing now that I was wrong. Not about the importance of shameless confidence… but about Khaled. It
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Friday night my wife was at a work function and I was a little “socialed” out, so I decided to stay at home, have a few gin and tonics, and watch a war movie. (I had planned on something sophisticated like The Thin Red Line, but I cheapened out and went for Saving Private Ryan.
Last weekend was the biggest amount of time I’ve wasted in ages. I let a strange addiction take me over, something I had buried a long time before and thought I had passed. Axis and Allies. Not necessarily because I love to PLAY the game. Because I try to modify it. I want to make the game
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As you know, I took a break from Twitter and this list last week. Some of it was family-time. Some of it was an already filled-up coaching schedule. The rest of it? Recalibrating my thoughts. I started working with a mentor, and he’s already significantly impacting my outlook on things…crystallizing some ideas that I’ve been
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A common adage in the dating scene is “opposites attract, but they don’t stay together” There’s a lot of truth to this expression. “Opposite” personalities are generally incompatible… they interact with the world in different ways. So while relationships are possible, they aren’t natural. And yet, such people often get together. What gives? Nothing too crazy,
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One of the interesting things about relationships are the little habits and patterns people establish over time.Inside jokes, rituals — things that may “kill” the honeymoon phase of novelty, but over time become a source of comfort and grounding. Unfortunately, most develop “bad” habits too — cycles that lead to fights and hurt feelings. I
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