One way I like to think I’m different from other dating coaches is I try to be honest about guys expectations going in. For instance, while some marketers will tell you all you need is to “follow my secret system to get women effortlessly”… I know that is complete garbage ad-copy designed to take your money […]
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One common gripe men to have, especially when they enter “the sphere,” is the idea that a woman will sleep with some guys immediately, while “waiting” for guys she actually wants to date seriously. (Commonly referred to as “alpha fux, beta bux”) I am very sympathetic to this complaint. It’s kind of fucked up that
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This email has been requested for awhile, so as promised here it is. But I will WARN you, this is for people who want to understand personality, which is not fluff… this requires mental effort, so don’t read it if you’re looking for a quick easy read. As many of you know I’m an ENTP.
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You guys have been asking a lot about MBTI personality types these days. But I’ve demurred quite a bit on the subject. Not because I won’t talk about it.But it’s a big rabbit hole, and I don’t want it to consume the content of my work. MBTI is something that has been VERY useful for working with
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The other week I was in Nashville, and spent an evening at the famous Bluebird Cafe. For those who don’t know, the Bluebird Cafe is a tiny, non-descript bar in a shopping center outside of Nashville. Seats no more than 100 people. Surrounded by “California Pizza Kitchen” and other bunk food and retail chains. And
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I find myself beating a dead horse in here sometimes, but today’s topic is something obvious… and yet ignored by guys trying to improve with women nonstop. And to be fair, it’s not their fault. Conventional wisdom in the “pick up” space tells you to really push your interactions with women when you’re getting started.
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One thing I used to do when I was younger and studying the art of the approach was binge-watch pick up videos online. I remember being enamored by them. Guys going up to pretty women they didn’t know, and grabbing their number. These girls were laughing. Smiling. And the guy was smooth as silk. I
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An account the other day (he shall not be named, got no issues with him) put out a note along the lines of: “if she makes you wait for sex, you’re not alpha.” I see this stuff a lot — no surprise, as it makes for good Twitter fodder. But it is really hilarious to
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People have been asking quite a bit, so more of these emails will focus on how personality type and attraction. Ergo, it makes sense to start with the types that started the “attraction industry”: the ISTP and INTP. These types, particularly the INTP, are the types that created Pick Up. And they remain the ones
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An acquaintance sent out a message to her group chat the other day that I found very interesting. (yes, I have spies who share such things with me) A little background on said woman before we dive in: She had been dating a guy who was poly, but the relationships was dysfunctional and eventually ended…
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