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Dissonance In A Nutshell

The other day I had an application from a guy considering doing some coaching with me. And he put some stuff on the application that gave me a bit of a chuckle. Nothing, really embarrassing or atypical, mind you. I don’t mention it to “shame” him. But worth noting since I’m certain many of you […]

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Ethical Cheating?

I got a question from a subscriber recently about an interesting situation. Basically, this guy is being courted by a married woman. She claims her marriage is good, and that she loves her husband. The only problem… she’s not satisfied sexually. And she wants this guy to “take care of her needs”, in order to help

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The Essence of Alpha

One thing I (and increasingly more) of the denizens of Twitter find hilarious is how much people in the red pill world obsess about who is Alpha and who is Beta. Part of this is funny because it’s just a stupid conversation. To use the jargon, guys who are extremely dominant and “run” the household

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Why Men Are Afraid of Women

Going to keep this one brief since it’s a bit late and I have a Beaujolais and tracksuit party to go to… despite — or should I say, especially — due to our first snowstorm. (it’s this sort of magical randomness that makes me love NYC) Anyway, the headline is a topic I find comes up with

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Why Players Struggle To Love

Last week I had a call with a new client about his current romantic situation. This is a wealthy, attractive, smart guy. He’s built a big business for himself and has had no lack of beautiful, feminine women over the last couple of years. Nevertheless, he’s been struggling to find a woman that he wants

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