Pat Stedman Blog

Am I Mean To Men?

As many of you saw, the last two days have been a bit of a clusterfuck on twitter. Red Pill guys have been coming out of the woodworks to express indignation at my apparent lack of sympathy for the myriad men who have been fucked over by women. Look: it’s not that I don’t have

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I Ruined A Girl’s Day…

So I was at the cafe today, writing your next big blog post… when something happened that made me smile. A pretty girl began giving me some eye contact. Now, unfortunately for this girl… I’m married. (Moreover she did not compose herself in a very feminine way, so I wasn’t attracted — big mistake on

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Why Deservedness Beats Discipline

So yesterday I put out a very important tweet that got very little engagement: “Deservedness > Discipline” I think it got like 3 likes or something — pretty shit for an almost 11K account. Honestly though I wasn’t all that surprised. It was a very unclear tweet (partially by design)… and everyone knows el mano-sphere

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Why Women Aren’t Sold On You

If you recall, I mentioned an ironic little phenomenon awhile back. That the guys who were already doing alright with women were the ones most willing to invest in themselves for coaching… compared to the ones that were struggling the most. Very interesting, no? But the rabbit hole in fact goes even deeper my friend. Yes…

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Are You “Too Heavy”?

Gonna cut to the chase today, since you got a big dump of content in your inbox yesterday. So while I’m big on studying tactics, crafting dating strategies, and going deep into guys’ limiting beliefs… One of the things that really fascinates me (because it’s so frickin’ relevant) is energy. Because while you can get all

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