One of the most common questions I get: What’s the best way to “open” a girl? Should I go direct or indirect? I get the reason for it. Guys are always looking for the “how” when it comes to dating. Which is why I wrote about this choice extensively in a blog post years back. But […]
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So I’ve experienced quite a few changes this past week. Many will become more clear to you over the coming months. But I want to talk today about something that I’ve alluded to in the past… but which takes on quite a deeper meaning for me today. I’m referring to Energy. Now, energy is one
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One of the things I talk about with my business coach quite regularly is selling. You see… like many “normal” people I grew up with the believe that selling was wrong. That selling was manipulative… you were “forcing” people into a sale. But, as I’ve learned in time from all the sales people who pulled
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I’ve talked a bit about this before. But one of the most tragic things you see in a relationship is when a guy attempts to argue a point with a woman who clearly doesn’t care… bleeding frame with each word he states. It’s weak approach to dealing with women. Because women don’t care about your
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I saw a girl carrying a bag with this description on my way to the cafe this morning. You see a lot of such things in NYC. “No judgment” “Accept everyone” “Hate has no home here” Dangerous things to write, if you ask me. Not because I support “hate” or being mean to people (whatever).
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Now, before we go into the meat… a caveat. I am a cautious person with my time, and so even though what I’m about to tell you is an excellent date idea… I don’t per se recommend it as a first date. Reason being: first dates, especially when you don’t yet know the person, are
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I tweeted this out last week, and it got a lot of feedback… some enthusiastic, others confused. I frankly don’t blame people for the latter, seeing as I was extremely drunk when I wrote it. (Sum 41 concert, give me a pass) At any rate, I’ve got a pretty good idea of what I meant
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So I had weird dream last night that I was being chased by a dinosaur. I was hiding under a rock in some cave. But wherever I went it seemed to sniff me out, get close… even though it never quite caught me. Eventually this chase took me to my childhood home, where I ran
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This is going to be an important email for many of you gents who are just getting into relationships. And unfortunately, it’s going to be a bit of a buzzkill. But, as a loving mentor my job is to give you what you need, not what you want. And I want to talk a bit
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It’s been much commented on that women today don’t know how to follow or surrender to men. Generally, there are two opinions on why this is. First is that women today have been programmed to be feminazis and associate such things with weakness instead of being naturally in tune with their femininity. Second is that
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