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How Women Manipulate Men

A couple weeks back I was talking with a client about his situation with a girl in a bar. More or less, this girl was giving him some serious eyes… so he went and approached. But after attempting to make some conversation she acted weird and a little cold, so he aborted the interaction. And […]

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The Pleighboy Lifestyle

So the other day I got into it with one of the usual “international pleighboys” (misspelled cause they’re retarded larpers) who decided to start talking shit about me and my crew.(not naming him, he’s a nobody — you can waste time digging on my TL if you care) As you might expect, I responded… a

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What Is The Purpose of Monogamy?

So the other day I put out a thread on monogamy on Twitter. And received the following question in response: “interesting ideas… could you expand on the leveraging of libido among others’ point? And what you mean by ‘exploring their shadows’ — what does this actually entail a person doing? I get the idea but don’t

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The Energy of Men and Women

So a few days ago I put out a thread today that’s going a bit viral on the nature of male and female energy. You can read the thread here. But, some elaboration on it… and why I’m talking about these things now.I’ve gone through an enormous number of layers and models when it comes

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In Defense of Rollo Tomassi

In Defense of Rollo Tomassi As many, if not most of you, know — I’ve had a long, not-so-cordial history with Rollo Tomassi. Those who aren’t caught up can see an anthology of our history here, dating back to summer 2017: Pt 1: The Ultimate Imperative Pt. 2: The Way Forward Pt. 3: What Is

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Adventures with Goldmund (Pt. 2)

So last time we talked about some French girls we met while Goldmund and I we were doing some “interviews” of girls dating and relationship lives. As you recall, these French girls were actually in committed relationships. Not so much the case for these next girls we met. First was a very cute, petite hispanic

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Stay Single or Commit?

A reader writes in: Thanks for putting out great content and actionable advice. I’ve been reading your stuff for probably 5-6 months now. I wanted to run my situation by you and see what you thought. I am a 22 year old guy and I’m struggling with whether to commit to a girl or not.

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Can Your Woman Really Change?

It’s a big question I’ve been getting from guys, especially recently. Can a relationship on the rocks be salvaged? Can their woman change? The short answer is unfortunately the least satisfying one: It depends. But I’ll give you some criteria to determine whether or not it’s possible in your case. The first variable is unfortunately

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