Pat Stedman Blog

Why She Wants To Be Pampered

It’s common knowledge most women love the finer things in life. Women are attracted to rich men, women care disproportionately about fashion, and of course, most consumers are women. And so there has always been this tension in the male provider-paradigm that a woman wants to spend things a man earns, and doesn’t think so much

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How Meghan Destroyed Harry

Full disclosure before this gossip column analysis: I could give two SHITS about the royal family. Prince Andrew is a confirmed pedophile, and he’s just the surface of the evil shit that goes on behind their “glamorous” lifestyle. But nevertheless it is very interesting seeing how things have unfolded with Prince Harry. Of course, it wasn’t hard

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The Truth About Deep Work

It’s no secret: one of the main reasons guys reach out to me is my specialty in deep work. Unlike a lot of coaches in dating and relationships, I don’t just stick to tactics.I don’t simply show you what to do, but how to THINK. Because doing well with women on a fundamental level is

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A Short NYE Email For You

Let’s cut to the chase: NYE is one of the “big three” each year when it comes to meeting women (along with Halloween and Valentines Day). Yes, the holiday is overdone. I know a lot of you probably have burnout. But the chances of a girl being open for connection tonight is EXTREMELY strong. And

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