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What A Woman Feels When You Fail

I talked about this on Twitter awhile back, and have been meaning to elaborate on it: The first reaction from a lot of guys, upon seeing this, was the usual cynical frustration you see so often in our corner. “Typical woman, leaving when things get rough” “Hypergamy doesn’t care” But there was an alternative take:

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Culture and Game

Following up on the last email… We were talking about CONTEXT when it comes to game. And yet… most of the context we discussed was simply concerning age. Not that it isn’t an important variable. It’s arguably the most important one of all. But a close second is CULTURE. And the truth is that the CULTURAL

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Is Game Always The Same?

Stumbled upon a really good exchange on Twitter that dovetails nicely with a lot of what we’ve been talking about with “context” recently: I love the point that Rivelino made. And it begs a very serious question: Is it game if she’s lower value than you? What is game, really? Now, I don’t want to get

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Are Hot Girls… Smart?

Heard an interesting comment the other day about models I wanted to riff off it: The tweet reminded me of an email I had written a few months back… where I posited that 7s and 8s were generally “the best” women that to commit to, as they had the most balanced personalities and were less

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Recovering From A First Love

Hi Pat, Thank you for your great content and for cleverly answering my question (love me as I am) in the last Q&A, too bad periscope isn’t more reliable. If you have time or if that can serve as material in one of the next ones, I have something to ask about that fascinating comment

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The Guy Who Haunts Her P*ssy

People spout a lot of bullshit about “what women want.” But the one “claim” that not only annoys me but is actively DEPRESSING to hear is that “girls only care about money.” Look, money is WONDERFUL to have (least of all women, if we’re being honest). And money IS an amplifier of attraction. But on its

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