Short and sweet content for you today. In yesterday’s email we talked about the problems smart guys have with women. The content revolved mostly around behavior and mindset. However, there is another more “macro” piece to the puzzle that applies to many in the high-IQ category. Their life is their work… and they don’t do […]
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It shouldn’t come as a surprise given my material… but pretty much all of my clients have been intelligent guys. Some simply above average, others “galaxy-brain” tier (150+ IQ) And yet, it’s somewhat strange that such men — so astute otherwise — would need help with women. On paper you’d think they’d have an EASIER
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We talk a lot about things you can do to improve yourself with women. Getting in shape. Becoming a social kingpin. Learning game and seduction. And of course, getting your beliefs sorted so you have unshakable confidence. (Get my masterclass if you want to level up on these) But there are unfortunately some things we
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A reader writes in: “Pat, I went through your masterclass in last few days and have a question. How does one improve their self-esteem or self-worth in an unconscious way? I’m consciously aware that I’m way more valuable than I believe myself to be, but I undersell myself a lot. I unconsciously do that.” —
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Had a request the other day to touch on a phenomenon noted in my last COVID/CABAL periscope (these are somewhat political and very esoteric / conspiratorial, so ignore these if that’s not your thing). No doubt there are parallels — indeed, you can’t simply limit it to the right, it connects to (almost) the entire political establishment.
The other day on my dating/relationship periscope (check out these weekly wine Q&As if you haven’t) I got a little “deep” on one of my questions. The low down: A guy was considering breaking things off with a girl he’d been dating for about 6 months, in part because he felt he wasn’t ready, and could “upgrade.”
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Got a couple of good responses to a recent email I wanted to address. First one: I think this is generally right on but here with a one year old? You may be missing what goes on in new mother’s physiology, it’s like a recovering drug addict for *a lot* of these women. — I
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Hey Pat, I’ve gotten a lot of great advice from you I’m a bit embarrassed about this question but would really love to hear your take. Having to send this from my junk email account… I’ve been married for 8 years and started dating my wife 15 years ago, in high school. We have a 1
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Recently there was a tweet going around that got some traction. And some of you asked me to comment: As the title of this post suggests, the advice above is full-blown manosphere retardation. It’s one of those tweets that not only pretends to be “alpha” and “logical” in order to rationalize emotional avoidance… but belies a complete
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