Was talking to a client the other day, and it occurred to me I hadn’t addressed a very interesting topic. Something that has underlined one of my strategies when it’s come to dating for years, even if I never spoke directly to it. I’m talking about the power of “friendzoning” girls who you connect with, […]
Gonna post a “trigger warning” for a lot of the guys reading this, as it may not be their cup of tea. But there’s a new phenomenon going on in dating that bucks a lot of the conventional manosphere wisdom. Something I’ve noticed before, and commented on disdainfully. But my tune’s changing a bit… and
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Ok, let’s be fair before I go into this. We all know the manosphere has been a “net benefit” to the community of guys out there. It’s shown men how to look better, make money, and be attractive. It’s even beginning to teach some higher level spiritual lessons, and build the leaders — both of
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I try to keep my ear to the ground, and one thing is pretty clear: Frustration is growing. People want to go out and meet up. They want to start their lives again. And if single, they want to get back to dating. Problem is… all the normal venues are closed or are missing their
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Last September I took a week off to hike 80 miles of the Appalachian Trail, from the start of the Delaware Water Gap in NJ to Greenwood Lake, NY. Not such a tough hike, really. Even amateurs manage 15 miles a day up and downhill — I would be averaging only 11-12 — and this
A situation happened with a client the other day that was very instructive and worth sharing. Cutting to the chase: My client had been dating a girl for a few months. Dynamic was pretty solid — they had great conversational chemistry, sex was good, and values were in line. She liked him, he liked her,
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Many of you asked for me to expand on this tweet from the other day: But really, what else is there to say? This is one of those observations that gathers much of its power through its simplicity. Take a moment and consider how it applies to your own life. What are you not yet ready to
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In the last email we talked about women who want to “be married” but don’t think so much about being a wife. And yet there needs to be an addendum to this… as men have their own problem in this department. Hang around the manosphere long enough and you’ll begin to think women want a
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The magnificent Shawn T Smith made a very interesting comment the other day: Which inspired me to produce my own version: Does she want to get married, or does she want to be a wife? Something not very polite to talk about these days. Sounds misogynistic just stating it. “What do you mean, that women have to act
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