Pat Stedman Blog

Should Your Girl Have Friends?

A very interesting and controversial comment came up on Twitter the other day: Truth be told, I didn’t think much of it when it came up in my client-only chat. Usual manosphere LARPing I assumed — taking dumb extreme positions to provoke a reaction. But as multiple DMs poured in… I began to actually consider

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Check Out My HOT WIFE

Weird but excellent topic came to my attention from my amazing friend @adotwill the other day. Good question. What is with this modern phenomenon of guys wanting to show off their “hot wife?” Now… I’ll be frank, I haven’t seen the above that much. It’s very over the top. So much so that I’d surmise there’s a chance (maybe

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Self-Improvement or Self-Love?

I put out a tweet the other day that was met with a very mixed response: Not surprising tbh, even though this is hardly the first time I’ve talked about “the issues of self-improvement” Many guys get “triggered” by attacks on this topic, as it’s very dear to them. You might even say for most

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Why Women Nag

Short but sweet email for you on this Monday. But I wanted to get this material on nagging out… because I think it’s a topic most men don’t really get. Understandably, 100% of guys hate it. It is probably one of the most annoying things a woman can possibly do in a relationship. It is

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The Dark Side of Trad

Short email only for you lads today. But I wanted to talk about something that happens *all the time* with women. Something you will need to deal with if you hope to maintain “frame” in a relationship (or whatever it is you have). What is that something? A woman’s propensity to blame YOU for exactly

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Why I Defend Creepy Men

The title should say it on its own, but going to issue a trigger warning for today’s email for ladies. But I’m about to go nuclear on something. There’s been a video going around about some girl who was approached by a “creep” while she was doing her livestream. Now… seeing a bunch of white

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