Last email I made the following aside about promiscuous girls: “I will contend that a woman who has truly processed her mistakes and takes full responsibility for them has a solid chance of getting a guy — because she will have the wisdom that comes from exploring her shadow. The problem of course is most […]
Been meaning to address something happening recently in the manosphere that may irk some of my female subscribers. But, it’s happening enough — and in some cases being so severe — that it’s worth warning you gents. Please take “e-girl” commentary on attraction with caution. Ever since our corner began to really break into the
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Short email for you today. But wanted to address a not-uncommon, but often confusing situation guys get in. You have a girl who is very interested in you. Aggressively so even — she asks you out, initiates the exchange. And so you guys go out. Game on, right? You’re gonna close no problem. Except on
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Another good thread from Roobz decided to riff off of: First things first: women DO struggle to receive admiration for their beauty these days. Social programming has been very successful at traumatizing women and making them consider the “male gaze” oppressive or demeaning. Most of the modern problems in sexual dynamics flow downstream from this.
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Provocative tweet came out yesterday from Roobz I was asked to comment on: It’s a good question. Is sexual compatibility actually a real thing? Well the short answer is… yes it is. Like in all aspects of human interactions, people are more compatible in some areas than others. Sex is no different. Sleep with enough women and
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Another great show with Tony Bruno, in which we discuss the infamous Girl Game.
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Love and hate a situation that emerged with a client the other day. Love it cause it’s one of my favorite topics, but hate it cause it’s always a difficult convo… as guys hate to hear. Basically, my client is seeing this girl. Very attractive. They slept together on their first date, and apparently the
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Common question I get — and one that arose with a client recently — is how you can know whether a girl is “the one.” Is there something about her that’s different than other girls? What emotions should you feel? It’s a good question, though obviously a difficult one to answer. First because of the
A reader writes in: — Blushing at that intro! However the question is a very good one. Why DO “chads” so often end up with unattractive women? One of the many phenomena “the red pill” would rather ignore than attempt to explain… because it contradicts some of their deeply held beliefs about “alpha males.” First,
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A funny tweet from “mentally ill women twitter” was brought to my attention this morning: I was asked, “Hey Pat, would love to hear your take on this question and why women overwhelmingly respond “no” to this” Well, to answer the first part — yes, women *absolutely* stress about the “one who got away.” There are
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