Was asked to comment on a “controversial” tweet the other day: It was fairly funny, not going to lie, because I find the term “alpha female” to be extremely cringe. It’s weird enough when men refer to themselves as “alpha.” But it’s bizarre when women do. It shows they’ve spent too much time in men’s circles… and …
One of the things that’s quite common in manosphere is this idea that dating and relationship issues are more or less the same. Why do relationships fail or get stagnant? Because the guy “isn’t desirable anymore.” He’s not alpha. It is taken for granted that these single guys won’t ever mess this up — in spite …
So as many of you guys know, one of my most distinct and powerful concepts I’ve pushed is the idea of “friend-zoning” women. For those who don’t know, this is basically making a woman — and yes, often an attractive woman — your friend rather than pursuing her romantically. The goal being to “plant seeds” …
As you must undoubtably know, there’s a war going on right now between Russian and Ukraine (and increasingly by proxy, NATO). Which means a lot of people — including yours truly — have become “armchair analysts,” commentating on the progress of the fighting, who is going to win, at what cost, etc etc Generally when …
Was asked to comment on a tweet the other day that is sure to trigger some people: My take? While I believe I understand the place that this person is coming from, the phrasing is poor… and is a classic example of someone swinging from one extreme to another. It is is true, for instance, …
I think we can agree one of the worst things to come out of Covid (RIP) was the dreaded “zoom date.” Probably it was something of a novelty in March/April 2020. Back then there was all sorts of excitement about the world ending, accompanied nevertheless with the naivety that things would “get back to normal” …
Short email for you today. But this topic’s been coming up a lot recently and needs addressing. A lot of guys have this fantasy in their mind that they “want the woman to initiate.” They are annoyed they always have to “make the move,” and at a certain point will often stop trying to have …
A reader writes in: “Hello Pat ! I’d like to ask you something that I don’t think you’ve already went through (if that’s the case, please send me the link to the email you wrote that talked about it). Please know that as a non-paying customer, I have no expectation from you to answer this …
A reader writes in (lot of details, buckle up): “Good morning. Though this is embarrassing and shameful to discuss, would you consider addressing why women lose sexual interest in their husbands/partners? I know you don’t work directly with women (I’ve inquired before) but this latest development in my 12-year tumultuous relationship is very disturbing and …
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