Was asked to comment on a tweet the other day that is sure to trigger some people: My take? While I believe I understand the place that this person is coming from, the phrasing is poor… and is a classic example of someone swinging from one extreme to another. It is is true, for instance, […]
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I think we can agree one of the worst things to come out of Covid (RIP) was the dreaded “zoom date.” Probably it was something of a novelty in March/April 2020. Back then there was all sorts of excitement about the world ending, accompanied nevertheless with the naivety that things would “get back to normal”
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Short email for you today. But this topic’s been coming up a lot recently and needs addressing. A lot of guys have this fantasy in their mind that they “want the woman to initiate.” They are annoyed they always have to “make the move,” and at a certain point will often stop trying to have
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A reader writes in: “Hello Pat ! I’d like to ask you something that I don’t think you’ve already went through (if that’s the case, please send me the link to the email you wrote that talked about it). Please know that as a non-paying customer, I have no expectation from you to answer this
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A reader writes in (lot of details, buckle up): “Good morning. Though this is embarrassing and shameful to discuss, would you consider addressing why women lose sexual interest in their husbands/partners? I know you don’t work directly with women (I’ve inquired before) but this latest development in my 12-year tumultuous relationship is very disturbing and
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Thought provoking tweet appeared on the timeline the other day: What do I think about it? Some of you might be able to guess, as I’ve covered stuff like this before. Indeed, I almost decided to simply answer this in a tweet. But there were a couple of other details this time around that made
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Important housekeeping email for you guys today. Because there are a couple of large changes coming here in the next few days and months. **Skip to the end if you want the big announcement only** — Those who have followed me for a long time, might know that I have been “playing the game on
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Was on the phone with a client the other day, and a common scenario popped up. He was interested in a girl. She was giving him some signs she felt the same about him. And so they walked together to the subway… yet despite her proposing the walk (a clear sign of interest) he didn’t
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A few weeks back an interesting chart crossed the feed on Twitter: The data on the richest cohort of course makes perfect sense — women love powerful men, and money offers power. But women also “cumming” as much with the upper middle class as with poor guys? What gives? After a second of thinking about
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Just a brief email for you today on a topic no one wants to touch. Sexually abused woman: Should you date them? And what’s it like to do so? First things first… and this needs to be said not simply for optics, but because the consequences of it need to be internalized in you guys…
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