Pat Stedman Blog

Do Women Leave Men Who Fail?

Something very commonly thrown about, or at least insinuated, in the manosphere is this idea that “women leave men who fail.” Women are hypergamous, after all, and want “winners.” Guys who lose don’t get the girl. Fair enough. I think we can all acknowledge that women like winners. But as usual, many guys don’t think

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The 3 Types Of Female Friends

So as many of you guys know, one of my most distinct and powerful concepts I’ve pushed is the idea of “friend-zoning” women. For those who don’t know, this is basically making a woman — and yes, often an attractive woman — your friend rather than pursuing her romantically. The goal being to “plant seeds”

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What War And Women Have In Common

As you must undoubtably know, there’s a war going on right now between Russian and Ukraine (and increasingly by proxy, NATO). Which means a lot of people — including yours truly — have become “armchair analysts,” commentating on the progress of the fighting, who is going to win, at what cost, etc etc Generally when

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