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Humility And Progress

Going to keep this email short and straight to the point. A lot of guys in the manosphere talk a big game. But the fact remains… The biggest impediment to growth has been, and always will be, stubbornness and arrogance. Unfortunately, these are common traits among men. Most guys would prefer to struggle and stagnate rather

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Is Attraction Overrated?

Very thought-provoking tweet by YoyloPUA the other day: A lot of guys will disagree with it. Indeed, I am not fully in agreement myself — technically speaking. Attraction — by my definition, desire and comfort — matters. And you need to learn it. But, you need to learn it so that you can do exactly what Yoylo

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Why You Only Meet The Wrong Women

Guys tend to disagree with each other about the quality of women for a very simple reason: the women they experience are completely different. But the question isn’t that this happens, but why it happens. Generally it’s a combination of factors. No question, the environment where you are meeting women matters. You are going to get a

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How To Deal With Poachers

Relatively short email for you today. But wanted to touch upon a topic the great Nash brought up the other day, as I haven’t talked about it very much on here. Poaching. Nash lays the practical response out well. So I’m not going to elaborate too much more on that. What I want to explain is why

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