Pat Stedman Blog

Can You Date Too Much?

Saw something amusing on the timeline this morning: I know everybody’s eyes are probably wide right now thinking about the number of sexual partners this woman just added to her roster in a short amount of time. However I’m actually going to go a little easy on her. Because while I’d be naive to suggest none […]

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How Should You Approach A Woman?

One of the most intimidating aspects of meeting women for guys is the dreaded “approach.” It’s awkward. It’s uncomfortable. And worst yet… as a stranger, the chances of rejection are fairly high. Much of the classic “game” literature has thus encouraged guys to approach in a more indirect way. To pretend your objectives are NOT

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The Low-Down On “Work Husbands” (And Other Workplace Flirtations)

Something I was asked to comment on awhile back, but I’ve mostly avoided has been the topic of women and their “work husbands.” The reason for this is fairly simple. I find the term “work husband” stupid and it annoys me. Such a classic phrase to emerge circa 2022. Nevertheless, it’s real and we must address it. So

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Why Nice Guys Are Evil

Read a harrowing story on Twitter the other day: It’s a long thread… you can go through the details yourself. But to TL;DR… this woman was dating a man and became pregnant with his child. Because she (African) was from a different background than him (Pakistani), however, his culture wouldn’t accept her. And so, while

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